"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you have a thing for 35ish year old professional women..

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the firm on NBC might be the best TV show of all time. the talent in this show good god. just legs everywhere. i want to bend every woman in this show over the table.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Men who like 35 year old women are like Bigfoot in Eastern Europe. We hear about them, but never really see them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjt6AJlQ6hI&feature=related
You freaks stuck in America will be worshiping her in about 20 years. How I love Eastern Europe and the girls that call it home. I also love lonely American guys that get sloppy 20ths. Even the French Canadians agree with me. Which is really sad because they don't even speak correct French!
 
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