"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you had your own pub, what would you name it?

DrMetallica

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If u had ur own pub, what would you call it?

Me? The Swan & Tomato

Brilliant!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Pub-erty. Mine is better.

Here are a few more genius names:

Pub-tastic.
Pub-Lick.

edit: I think this is the lamest and most unproductive post I have ever made on this forum.
I don't understand the brilliance of "The Swan & Tomato," is it an inside joke of some sort?
 

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The Queen's Legs...so I can brag about opening the queen's legs for the first time. God I'm so original. :rolleyes: :D

-shaun
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
Pub-erty. Mine is better.

Here are a few more genius names:

Pub-tastic.
Pub-Lick.

edit: I think this is the lamest and most unproductive post I have ever made on this forum.
I don't understand the brilliance of "The Swan & Tomato," is it an inside joke of some sort?
No inside joke... I just think it's a grand name for a pub. BTW keep thinking of names, cos I would never venture to a pub named "pub-lick". jaysus...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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