"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you had to find a "wife" in a month, how would you do it?

Canadien

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Ok fellows, this is the tough one, the subject that brought me to this forum. As you may know, I come from south Indian familly, and as such I am expected to go through arrange marriage in India.

Just to give an example, one of my cousin just got married this way, and he had a month to choose the girl he wants to spend the rest of his life. So, how would you occupy all your techniques to get "Married" in a month?

As an incentive, you would have no work, and nothing to keep you busy, except a search for a wife, how would you go about doing this?

What places would you go?
who would you talk to?
Would you start interaction any differently?


I ask this question, because even for all of the Don Juan's, this question would still be relevant, as we all want to get married someday, so would time limit motivate us and make us do things differently?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Canadien said:
...I ask this question, because even for all of the Don Juan's, this question would still be relevant, as we all want to get married someday, so would time limit motivate us and make us do things differently?
Read this and reconsider your question.

The Marriage Goal
 

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MAIL ORDER BRIDE

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Uh huh....

I can't find a wife in a month. She has to be with me though hell and back, twice for me to trust her with my word at an altar.
 

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You could try hiring an escort to pretend to be your wife. hehe just kidding.
Why would you want to anyway? If its just pressure from your community, best to stand up to them and say 'NO'. Do what YOU want.Sure you're parents and relatives have supported you for the past 20+ odd years, but the woman you marry will spend the next 60! So proceed with extreme caution! Protect your heart. I know a lot emotional black mail goes on in s-asian communities to pressure people into getting married. Stand up for yourself,and in doing so bring about social change for the better.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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