"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you had to find a "wife" in a month, how would you do it?

Canadien

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Ok fellows, this is the tough one, the subject that brought me to this forum. As you may know, I come from south Indian familly, and as such I am expected to go through arrange marriage in India.

Just to give an example, one of my cousin just got married this way, and he had a month to choose the girl he wants to spend the rest of his life. So, how would you occupy all your techniques to get "Married" in a month?

As an incentive, you would have no work, and nothing to keep you busy, except a search for a wife, how would you go about doing this?

What places would you go?
who would you talk to?
Would you start interaction any differently?


I ask this question, because even for all of the Don Juan's, this question would still be relevant, as we all want to get married someday, so would time limit motivate us and make us do things differently?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Canadien said:
...I ask this question, because even for all of the Don Juan's, this question would still be relevant, as we all want to get married someday, so would time limit motivate us and make us do things differently?
Read this and reconsider your question.

The Marriage Goal
 

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MAIL ORDER BRIDE

Russian btches so hot, and submissive that you can fvck them in the anus, and make it go inside out, so when she's taking a big sh;t, it makes or go, "OHHHHHHHEEEEEEE Mana gooostaf"
 

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Uh huh....

I can't find a wife in a month. She has to be with me though hell and back, twice for me to trust her with my word at an altar.
 

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You could try hiring an escort to pretend to be your wife. hehe just kidding.
Why would you want to anyway? If its just pressure from your community, best to stand up to them and say 'NO'. Do what YOU want.Sure you're parents and relatives have supported you for the past 20+ odd years, but the woman you marry will spend the next 60! So proceed with extreme caution! Protect your heart. I know a lot emotional black mail goes on in s-asian communities to pressure people into getting married. Stand up for yourself,and in doing so bring about social change for the better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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