"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you had sons. Would you teach them PU?

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Trolls trolls trolls. You need to be banned. You are like poison to the forum. You do nothing but give horrible advice and ultimately RUIN topics. This was a perfectly good discussion topic and you come in here and HIJACK IT just like trolls. If the mods haven't banned you guys, they should, because you ARE the scum of the forum. Especially you superchill, I don't know how you've gotten away with a year of trolling peoples topics and giving bad advice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I wouldn't, it's way to limited in what's necessary to live a happy, fulfilled life. Instead I'd teach him how to be a man.
+1

If your Dad is a DJ it's harder to grow up as an AFC, that's unless you get brainwashed by the media and your friends' habits.

I know this because my Dad was a pimp back in his days and still attracts women left and right. As I grew up he always told me his experiences with women and always taught me never kiss a woman's ass and that I should never take crap from a woman. The mindset grew into me... these seduction sites did nothing for me except a few techniques.. if you got the mindset, then you basically understand the whole principle.
f you don't want your son to grow up as an AFC you must teach him to stand up for himself and that women are women and men are..men. Nothing too complicated IMO.


And Real shut the **** up already.
 

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I was talking about this with my roomate today. We both basically wanted our sons to be DJ's. We wanted them to go somewhere in their lives.

I said the most important thing I would teach my son is confidence for anything he did. I would teach and lead my son to become a good guy. I guess that is teaching him PU, but I wouldn't sit him down and tell him like how to mack a girl.

I would rather have him just be naturally attractive because he is an alpha male.
 

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ElStud said:
...basically would you or would you not teach your sons PU?
I think they'd learn a little about how to treat a woman and how to act like a man from me. I wouldn't focus on just randomly picking up girls, that isn't my style. But I'd work on their confidence and everything as they grow (all around confidence, not just with women). And they're a little bit on their own after I give them my advice. Sometimes a teen or young man has to go through junk to really learn.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't know about teaching them actual "pick up techniques", but I'd definitely steer them clear of the dating/relationship advice bs that floats around our society.
 

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No, I'd teach him how to be a man first. That's far more important than teaching him how to pick up girls. Pick up=getting girls. Being a man=getting girls AND guys to like you.
 

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My son will be raised in an environment in which becoming a man will come naturally. I was not raised in such an environment as a child, and most children aren't/weren't.
 

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Late to this party but yes, choose a woman worth staying with and be an example of how to be a man like my father was to me. As men we have a lot more to pass on than just our DNA.
 

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I'd teach my kids as my dad taught me...to be well rounded. A man should know how to work on cars, fix damn near anything around the house, be sociable, and speak with an eloquence rarely seen in these days of hip-hop videos and text messaging. Girls will naturally be attracted to you if you're the package deal.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MooseGod said:
.... and speak with an eloquence rarely seen in these days of hip-hop ....
You do in fact display communication skills I generally associate with an older generation. Good on you and nice job your Dad must have done. :up:
 

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ElStud said:
When they would get around that puberty era and start telling me how they "don't know what to say to girls" or that BS, I would start telling them about PU there. I might even take them out to the field once in a while just to demonstrate the techniques
This whole paragraph is just wrong.

First of no teenager or young adult would ever want to hang out with his old man trying to pick up chicks in a bar or on the street, no matter how much respect he has for you, when it comes to that, he would listen for advice but he wouldn't want to go in field with you or know every little detail, that would be too embarrassing for him (gee dad is that how you picked up mom? oh please tell me the story of you spining plates with mom and how you fvcked closed her again).

Secondly you need to raise them right. If your son stays home all the time, watches dumb sh1t on tv and stays on the computer for hours he will likely grow up an AFC. He needs to get into sports, comeptition, understands responsibility from a very early age. As long as he has good testosterone and a postive masculine father, he won't grow up to be clueless and he won't grow up to be an AFC but become a natural DJ.
 

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DJDamage said:
This whole paragraph is just wrong.

First of no teenager or young adult would ever want to hang out with his old man trying to pick up chicks in a bar or on the street, no matter how much respect he has for you, when it comes to that, he would listen for advice but he wouldn't want to go in field with you or know every little detail, that would be too embarrassing for him (gee dad is that how you picked up mom? oh please tell me the story of you spining plates with mom and how you fvcked closed her again).

Secondly you need to raise them right. If your son stays home all the time, watches dumb sh1t on tv and stays on the computer for hours he will likely grow up an AFC. He needs to get into sports, comeptition, understands responsibility from a very early age. As long as he has good testosterone and a postive masculine father, he won't grow up to be clueless and he won't grow up to be an AFC but become a natural DJ.
Hey dude, this is all theoritical. I'm a kid, you expect me to know that.
 

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Honestly it depends on how he is doing in his life in that field. Hopefully by the time he's 16 or 17 he should know what he is doing around girls. If for some reason he is still a girlfriendless virgin who spends his time playing World of Warcraft III, I'll know that something went wrong somewhere. Then I'll take him aside and put him in a crash course.

In all honestly, the most important thing that determines how a if a guy will get girls or not is how he is raised and what his life experiences are. If the parents make sure that the boy keeps on doing sociable activities, plays sports and has a very limited number of time he can spend watching tv and playing video games he should be all right. It's also very crucial to talk to him when he gets his first crushes and give him some tips and ego boosters. That way he can grow up to be a natural. Just make sure tell him about safe sex unless you want to be a grandfather.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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this is a pretty useless post for a 17 year old creepy virgin who cant even take advice to make
 

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I'd influence my children to be MALE, DOMINANT, etc.
but I wouldn't be like at 12 years old "if you want to hit that you got to DHV, C+F, etc.
I'd make them play sports and encourage them to hang out with good friends for social proof and give advice if/when they might ask but I wouldn't straight out teach my sons PUA tactics until their at that age and even then im sure he'll eventually learn way before I decide to teach them...
although I kind of wished I had an older brother that could pimp ho's that I could look up to...
 

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