"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good. Fvcking good. Because guess what? That is how you learn. You stop touching the stove when its hot because it burns right?

Pain is weakness leaving the body. No true alpha got where he is with out pain. Some might get lucky and never had to deal with much pain, but whats going to happen when sh!t hits the fan? They will break.

You have to just deal with the pain, dont avoid it, feel it.

In time you will not feel that way, feelings change. If you hurt now, thats for now.

You might just look back one day and think, wow why the fvck did I act that way. The answer will be due to a lack of experience. Not that your weak or stupid, only ignorant.

Experience is the only way to change yourself. :box:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good post. Gotta keep that mindset that confidence comes from real experience good or bad.
 
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Great post.

Its just like being a body builder. You can't get amazing physical strength without putting your body through significant pain. The physical pain tells your body to make that area stronger. Pain leads to gain.

Emotional strength is the same.

This is why all types of strength (physical, mental and emotional) are so admired. Its not easy to get there. You have to go through some sh!t.

Every dark period of your life will ultimately lead to a degree of re-birth where you come out of the situation stronger and wiser. :up:
 
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