If you got burned....

[VikingKing]

Good. Fvcking good. Because guess what? That is how you learn. You stop touching the stove when its hot because it burns right?

Pain is weakness leaving the body. No true alpha got where he is with out pain. Some might get lucky and never had to deal with much pain, but whats going to happen when sh!t hits the fan? They will break.

You have to just deal with the pain, dont avoid it, feel it.

In time you will not feel that way, feelings change. If you hurt now, thats for now.

You might just look back one day and think, wow why the fvck did I act that way. The answer will be due to a lack of experience. Not that your weak or stupid, only ignorant.

Experience is the only way to change yourself. :box:

 

[GS750]

Good post. Gotta keep that mindset that confidence comes from real experience good or bad.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Great post.

Its just like being a body builder. You can't get amazing physical strength without putting your body through significant pain. The physical pain tells your body to make that area stronger. Pain leads to gain.

Emotional strength is the same.

This is why all types of strength (physical, mental and emotional) are so admired. Its not easy to get there. You have to go through some sh!t.

Every dark period of your life will ultimately lead to a degree of re-birth where you come out of the situation stronger and wiser.