If you go to a club with a woman, what is the code of conduct?

[DJDamage]

I went to a club with a bunch of people I knew. Now one of the guy's there had a girlfriend which I also knew very well and she did do good by introducing him as her boyfriend,

Now through out the night she kept on looking for me to dance with her, have shots with her, rub up against me and touch me whenever she could. It was kinda wierd seeing how her boyfriend (they been in LTR for over 6 months) was cool about it, she even asked him to take a picture of both of us. Now I am sure her boyfriend has some game but he ain't no DJ and he just doesn't seem to mind her over flirty nature (she is hot latin chick from South America, very friendly people). By the end of the night before I left his girlfriend gave me a very tight hug and planted a long wet kiss on my cheek ( very close to the lips.)

Now my question is this, what is the appropriate behaviour for a chick in a club with her or without her boyfriend and should you even care?!

 

[edmond]

Get the fvuk out, don´t get involved in their games.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Get the fvuk out, don´t get involved in their games.

I agree.

 

[Hitman10000]

When it comes to mind games from any gender you only got two options which is the same for nature that many animals instinctively know well:

Fight or Flight, you either play with it and don't take it seriously or you just completely avoid the scenario.

 

[DJDamage]

don't take it seriously

I didn't take her seriously but my question is how normal is this phenomenom when a woman with a boyfriend go to club and act as if she is not with a boyfriend (which is quite common i know) but how common is it for her man to actually show he doesn't care?! Does he accept this kind of behaviour because he thinks women are "liberated" and she is not doing any harm or is he really mad on the inside but just trying to play in cool?. How does a man allow this kind of behaviour and not think there is something wrong with it? I could see it as not being a problem if you spin plates, but for LTR I would think a man would want his woman to be more reserve with her interaction with other men.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I didn't take her seriously but my question is how normal is this phenomenom when a woman with a boyfriend go to club and act as if she is not with a boyfriend (which is quite common i know) but how common is it for her man to actually show he doesn't care?! Does he accept this kind of behaviour because he thinks women are "liberated" and she is not doing any harm or is he really mad on the inside but just trying to play in cool?. How does a man allow this kind of behaviour and not think there is something wrong with it? I could see it as not being a problem if you spin plates, but for LTR I would think a man would want his woman to be more reserve with her interaction with other men.

Don't worry whether it's normal or not, what matters is whether her actions complement your character and beliefs. There's way too many women out there with various personalities to focus energy on wondering on this type of woman if she isn't really your style.

 

[Rudra]

We have a saying - you can whet your appetite wherever you want... but it is at home you will eat... I think that´s the game here. B/f allowing his chick to wallow in other men´s attention and to get all hot and steamy with them... but it is only his c0ck that gets green light. Just my 2c.

 

[STR8UP]

Now my question is this, what is the appropriate behaviour for a chick in a club with her or without her boyfriend and should you even care?!

Appropriate behavior is defined by the parties involved.

Last night I was hanging out with a friend, his wife, her friend, and her friend's man. By 10pm we were all out on the deck, the chicks were fukked up, and the clothes started coming off. Two chicks in the jacuzzi, but ass naked in front of their men and two other guys.

My buddy didn't seem to mind about his girl being seen without any clothes on, the other chick's man got a little pissy and they had a little spat later on.

To each his own. Personally I wouldn't care for my chick getting too close to another dude like that, but if the guy doesn't mind for whatever reason what's the problem?

 

[afrojiggles]

she is using u to up her bf jelousyness so bail out man now