"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you get yourself a gf you can then...

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...hit on other girls with absolute no fear of rejection.

I mean a gf you only fun not serious or a reliable fuk buddy.

In that scenario it would be so easy to chat up loadsa girls and even make a fool embarassment out of yourself cause at end off day you dotn care you still getting some.

I may try this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In a way yes. When, I was with someone I had no problem talking to other girls. I guess the main reason why is that I wasnt trying to get with them cause I was already with somebody. I was just doing it for the conversation.

So, if you could possibly get in that type of "mind frame" it may help you approach and chat with girls. But, I would caution you if your flirting w/ others girls when you have a GF..
 
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