“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you get rejected, use this line...

wheelin&dealin

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If you ever make an approach and the chick shows obvious disinterest or if you go for her number and she doesn't give it to you, use this line...

"That's the first time I've ever been rejected by a 6 out of 10"



...This should leave her with a nice sized emotional scar.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Comeon dude, that's nasty.

IMO there is no need to be that nasty. If you failed to successfully hit on a chick, it is something to do with your approach and not the chick's fault (unless it is later in the game when you have demonstrated your values etc). She is usually making a quick judgement on you. In that case it is your job to change her perception of you.

Also, you should never hit on a chick on APPROACH. She should not be realising that you are hitting on her until about 10 minutes into your interaction.
 

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Hey wheelin,

When I encounter an abnormally rude chick (which doesn't happen very often, but once in a while you'll find a bad egg), my typical response is, "You don't look nearly good enough to have an attitude like that" and then walk away. A few times the chicks have even apologized after I gave them that line. Seems rather effective.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty
 

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Yeah I use to really have a lot of hatred when I got shot down. But it was when I got shot down all the time using the same lame pickup lines and no game.

But now I take it more in stride and can move on quickly.

I still get pissed when I get dumped.

The best comeback I had was when a girl said to me "I wouldn't go out with you if you were the last man on earth" (I was a bit drunk and obnoxious)

So I said, "If you were the last girl on earth, I'd rather stick my d i c k in a tree than you!"

That actually got her to apologize believe it or not. She said her mom always told her to tell guys that.
 

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NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!! Don't even say a damn thing!!!!! Just give her a smirk along with a slow glance from the feet up and turn around and walk off with NO verb comments. This will piss them off even more.. I mean you look at her like a turd that didn't flush the first time after you had a nice bowel movement! lol. Hey, works for me.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Originally posted by thecraftylefty
Hey wheelin,

When I encounter an abnormally rude chick (which doesn't happen very often, but once in a while you'll find a bad egg), my typical response is, "You don't look nearly good enough to have an attitude like that" and then walk away. A few times the chicks have even apologized after I gave them that line. Seems rather effective.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty
I sometimes use a similar line to that.

I don't recommend simply walking away because it seems AFC

If a girl is rude to you, give it right back to her, and then some.

Often times, they are testing you to see if you're an AFC
 

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I agree with knocking the rude ones off their self-created pedestal. But if she just says no in an OK way, I don't agree with 'dis'ing her. That just makes you look like an AFC. Girls spread the word...
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
I don't recommend simply walking away because it seems AFC

If a girl is rude to you, give it right back to her, and then some.

Often times, they are testing you to see if you're an AFC
Dude, how in any way is that AFC to walk away? I'm not going to put up with any of their $hit and I'll definitely call her on it. I can better spend my time on sarging other chicks if she's wants to be rude.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty
 

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Originally posted by thecraftylefty
Dude, how in any way is that AFC to walk away? I'm not going to put up with any of their $hit and I'll definitely call her on it. I can better spend my time on sarging other chicks if she's wants to be rude.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty


Taking crap from a woman is AFC behavior in my book.

Also, in my experiences, women in clubs will sometimes say rude things to test you to see how you respond - if one just walks away, you are an AFC in their eyes.

If one trades wise azz comments (C&F) with them, they are seen as more worthy.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Taking crap from a woman is AFC behavior in my book.

Also, in my experiences, women in clubs will sometimes say rude things to test you to see how you respond - if one just walks away, you are an AFC in their eyes.

If one trades wise azz comments (C&F) with them, they are seen as more worthy.
If they act like a rude wh0re, why give a damn what they think? I just walk off - no need to lower myself to acting like a b!tch.

For me the point isn't to "seem worthy" in their eyes. I couldn't care less. I'm out to determine whether or not she is worthy of me, not vice versa.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LOL

wheelin&dealin,

That's really Good!!!!!

I wanna see if the girl will start to beg on their knees to ask for another chance
 

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I wouldn't recommend diss'ing them for reasons mentioned. But I bet if you threw "that I would bang" on the end of that statement with a huge grin wheelin I am sure you'd get some play :D

The super Neg! hehhe, I am kidding btw, but it would make a funny neg hit.

I don't think I heard anyone say the actual words neg hit in this thread. There were definitely references of the act of neg hitting though.

We need the keyword neg in the case that she had obvious disinterest (I am picturing some b1tch/rudeness here, lil tension), but if she just denied you the number there could have been several reasons she did so and no neg is needed, unless a special case.... different subject, a;sldjf laksjdfiddsfd
 

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Okay so after she shoots you down she thinks she has all the control right?!

If you insult her, you just gave her a reaction that shows you're mad and lost control. Sure, it feels good to put the little biatch in he place but where's it gonna get you?? What will she tell her hot little friends?? That you're an ******* and mad her feel bad. Then she sees you makin on another girl 5 minutes later asking for her number?? please.

She could have rejected you for many reasons. Maybe she had a bad day but the most common reason is the fact that you didn't demonstrate your VALUE before going for the digits etc.

Think of it this way, how many #'s would you get it you simply walked up to a girl and asked for her number without having any previous repoire? Probably little to none. Unless you're Brad Pitt or a movie star but even them there's repoire becasue she knows your value!

The best thing to do if she denies you her number is to instantly show more value to her! Now this doesn't mean saying "Don't you know who I am?? I'm Elimidate!" or "Baby, I drive a viper want a ride??!"

Simpley turn the tables ------use come C+F and make her laugh. This will lighten the situation and then IMMEDIATLEY change the subject. Then get her talking about herself and cut it short.

Have her beggin for more and then say "It was great meeting you, take care (With pure confidence and charm!!) "

If you've shown her your value she will not want to loose you so she'll most likely break and give it to you. Because you've shown her you're not desparate and can simply walk away with a smile on your face.

Hey, you may not get the number but its a lot better than the insult! Trust me.

Elimidate
 

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April Fools Day diss

On April Fools day, everybody should walk up to the hotest girls, girls you would never think would even give you a look and start macking to them. If they show interest, see if you can finish it off. If they start acting arrogant and try to blow you off, just shout out "April Fools!", and say you really weren't interested in them. :D
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Taking crap from a woman is AFC behavior in my book.

Also, in my experiences, women in clubs will sometimes say rude things to test you to see how you respond - if one just walks away, you are an AFC in their eyes.

If one trades wise azz comments (C&F) with them, they are seen as more worthy.
From what I've gathered in your post, you seem to have a want to prove your worth to them. That is unnecessary in situations like these. You're much better off just moving on to another target that has a much better disposition.

Originally posted by Ofus
If they act like a rude wh0re, why give a damn what they think? I just walk off - no need to lower myself to acting like a b!tch.
Exactly.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
If you ever make an approach and the chick shows obvious disinterest or if you go for her number and she doesn't give it to you, use this line...

"That's the first time I've ever been rejected by a 6 out of 10"



...This should leave her with a nice sized emotional scar.
Haha! The title of this post should be How to Assuage Your Bruised Ego by Tossing Off Insults at the Girl as a Loser's Last Ditch Expression of his Frustration at Having Been Rejected by wheelin&dealin.

-PDX
 

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If a girl said that to me after I rejected her, I'd have a much lower opinion of her than I already did.
 

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Good point Diplomatic

You should put the shoe on the other foot sometimes and see how certain things would make you feel.

On the other hand, if a girl does piss you off, sometimes it's better to let her know.

I always think up good things to say to them when it's already too late (like an hour later or so)
 

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i would not diss the chick, she may later change her mind or become a valuable resource, so dont burn any bridges.

More times than often, if a female would take the time to get to know you, your chances would be greater for something to blossom. Happens to me all the time. Maybe I should work on my opening rap, but after her guard is down, i usually get where i want to be.

Dont be rude when you see them again. Smile when they walk by, have friendly convo til you get those walls down. It will show you are mature, instead of bombing on her.

But if she's rude, I agree, break her.
 

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If she's polite and honest about it, you should be the same way. If she rejects you with uncalled-for meanness, just say "Sorry, didn't realize you were a b!tch" - and walk away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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