If you get flirted with a lot...

[_sideways_]

How do you manage to not let it get to your mind?

I pretty much get my fair share of attention to the point my mom and family has to drop me down a couple of notches as they say...
But I'm polite and have great hair and skin so I'm always received.

But how do you cool azz dudes take all the attention... Cuz it does affect me...always had...since birth...

But I feel I'm not utilizing it.

 

[bigneil]

Flirtophobia?

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Don't change who you are in any situation for anyone. I recently heard that it's best to always be on the offensive - i.e. you're not flirting with certain women and certain times because you necessarily want something; you flirt with all women all the time, because that's just you you are. You're a ladies' man and you shouldn't make any apologies for it.

There's one thing that I can't stand it's people who brown nose - noticeably changing their behaviour to placate certain people. You see it equally in men and women, especially in the work place, and it's cringe-worthy.