"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you get flirted with a lot...

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How do you manage to not let it get to your mind?

I pretty much get my fair share of attention to the point my mom and family has to drop me down a couple of notches as they say...
But I'm polite and have great hair and skin so I'm always received.

But how do you cool azz dudes take all the attention... Cuz it does affect me...always had...since birth...

But I feel I'm not utilizing it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don't change who you are in any situation for anyone. I recently heard that it's best to always be on the offensive - i.e. you're not flirting with certain women and certain times because you necessarily want something; you flirt with all women all the time, because that's just you you are. You're a ladies' man and you shouldn't make any apologies for it.

There's one thing that I can't stand it's people who brown nose - noticeably changing their behaviour to placate certain people. You see it equally in men and women, especially in the work place, and it's cringe-worthy.
 
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