"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you get BANNED don't come back

KoalaKing

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If the mods have banned you from the site leave because they obviously don't want you writting on here.
All these skip2mylou's desire is to flame everyone else so that they retaliate and get banned themselves.
Just ignore them, it is sad when one person has to be two that are against each other.
Anyway is king frodo are real writer on the site or just a figment of someones imagination, I have never seen the name on any thread. :yes: :mad: :yes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jariel

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The sad thing is that it's losers like that who need the site the most, but are more interested in being fools or promoting their cyber-egos to gain anything from it.
 

BluEyes

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The message the admins are sending by banning is: Actually READ the site, before posting.
 

Chosen1

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I hate to ask this but was skip banned for just flaming people or something more serious. I remember one guy got banned for advertizing or something stupid like that
 

Mr_knowit_all

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What's the use of banning someone, when these idiots can obviously get back on here? Are they banning the account, or the IP address?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Jariel said:
The sad thing is that it's losers like that who need the site the most, but are more interested in being fools or promoting their cyber-egos to gain anything from it.
That's scary but true.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Apparently the account only. I don't know, maybe you CAN'T ban the IP address...but that's what needs to happen for a true ban.
I don't think you can ban an IP address. Besides, you can change your IP address almost as easily as you can create a new forum ID.
 

Cod3r

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^ ^ You can ban an IP address, trust me

If you use LAN or Cable or DSL your IP address dosen't change, its always constant. If you use dial-up its impossible to ban an IP address because everytime you dial up you get a new one...


-Cod3r
 

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But IPS work on subnets, ie. 205.1.1.1 - 205.1.1.255 - so you could ban 205.1.1.* and ban all of the 255 possibilites, er 205.1.*.* and ban the larger subnet. Either way, people who get banned should get a clue.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Charm said:
But IPS work on subnets, ie. 205.1.1.1 - 205.1.1.255 - so you could ban 205.1.1.* and ban all of the 255 possibilites, er 205.1.*.* and ban the larger subnet. Either way, people who get banned should get a clue.
True. Requesting to ban an entire subnet is just asking for trouble. But none the less, there are people who'll get banned that will see it as a challenge to get back into the forum and piss all over the place just to flex their online muscle. :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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