"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you F'd it up before....

PS79

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About 3 years ago, I completely botched it with this girl. I acted needy, clingy, gave her gifts, acted indecisive..you name it...it happened. Of course, I'm a lot different now...

I saw her yesterday at a retail store where she worked and she looked absolutely gorgeous. The second I walked in the store, her and her co-workers noticed me immediatley because that's where I met her 3 years ago.

And maybe I'm overanalyzing this but it almost looked as if she did one of those, "let me get close him to see if he notices me" type of thing...but I was in a rush and had to be fitted for a suit by one of the tailors at the store.

I have to pick my suit in a couple of days and of course I'm going to see her again.... How should I go about this one?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't act needy, clingy, or give her gifts. Remember, you're better than that now. Just say hi, have some small chat and move on with your day. I'm assuming she still has your number or you have her's, if she wants more she'll call.
 
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