"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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if you fail initial attraction

don code

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If a women isnt attracted to you when you first meet her is there a chance of her being attracted to you if she meets you again a while later? The question im asking is if you were once a uselss afc and now you have worked on yourself to become attractive and meet the same girl you met a year ago when you were an afc is there a chance she could be attracted to you now even tho u ****ed up the first impression?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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if you have not seen her for a long time and do not know her well so she does not have a solid impresion fo you, and you have really changed for the better, then defintly she could be attracted to you.
 

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its definitely possible. as they wonder why you arent by their side as much as u used to back in your afc days.
 

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Yeah i agree too its happened to me a few times now. I think the best way if u are learning this and you are an afc looking for a certain girl, loose contact with her till you get the skills then show your skills out of the blue one day.
 

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Almost all the LJBFness

Is on the guy.

Girls **** guys they LJBF'ed every day.

But not the guys that accepted the label.

You have a lot more control of how people think of you that you realize.

If you refuse to be the LJBF guy you don't end up being that guy. You either get laid or you are a jerk and she doesn't want to see you.

The LJBF zone is all in our heads. We create this gentle nurturing place to be in when girls tell us that they don't want to **** us. If you don't stay in that nuturing place and instead go into the wilderness you may find that she respects your survival skills and next time will **** you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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