Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Exactly.romangod said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well if you do the math I'm sure 145 million is well over half of what he would acquire in the short 4 years time she was with him. I don't know too many other enterprises where you do nothing, live a life of luxury and then walk away with $145 million severence pay/profit.azanon said:Just $145 million of a 1.84 billion dollar fortune? Oh well.... so much for the "they take half" divorce scare theories.
If my trusty calculator is correct, that's 7.88%; slightly less than 50%
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No kidding. It almost makes me sick.ketostix said:
Prenups can be rendered worthless in many countries. They might be bullet-proof in America, but in the UK, which is where this case happens, they aren't fully legally binding (not yet anyway, but this might be changed soon). It's the same here in Australia where I live.Socialreject said: