If you don't truly believe that you can make a woman like you, it's a deathspell

[bigdave17]

this is what I've experienced over and over in my life. I've worked so obsessively hard at improving the outside aspects of my life yet I haven't fixed the number one problem.

Why are women so good at smelling this out? When you approach one but you're not confident in your ability to make them like you, you will have zero success even if you're 6'5 with a diamond **** and a face like Henry Cavill

 

[sosousage]

this is what I've experienced over and over in my life. I've worked so obsessively hard at improving the outside aspects of my life yet I haven't fixed the number one problem.

Why are women so good at smelling this out? When you approach one but you're not confident in your ability to make them like you, you will have zero success even if you're 6'5 with a diamond **** and a face like Henry Cavill

"can woman detect you dont believe in your success with women?" no i dont think so, at least not directly
"can HUMAN BEINGS detect low self esteem or looser attitude?" YES

i think you just aim too high or maybe your personality is bad. its ok to first date low quality girls, then you would know if theres something wrong with you or not.

i was scared to escalate till i started dated one ugly girl way below my SMV. i tested everything on her and applied everything that worked on other girls with whose i feel "comfortable" to apply it

 

[Mike32ct]

What I’m sensing (more than anything) is a lack of patience. Yes, you have a lot going for you, but you seem to want to meet your dream girl and hit it off with her tomorrow.

I would recommend a more patient, light-hearted, IDGAF attitude with women. You don’t control exactly when you’ll meet the right one, so it’s very important not to take what 99 percent of them do/say personally.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

this is what I've experienced over and over in my life. I've worked so obsessively hard at improving the outside aspects of my life yet I haven't fixed the number one problem.

Why are women so good at smelling this out? When you approach one but you're not confident in your ability to make them like you, you will have zero success even if you're 6'5 with a diamond **** and a face like Henry Cavill

I think our mistake is thinking we have to make them like us.

 

[Trump]

In my experience if you don't believe that you can a woman like you, it's a great thing.

I've experienced over and over in my life. I've worked so obsessively hard at improving the inside aspects of my life yet I haven't fixed the number one problem

Women are not good at smelling this out. When you approach one and you are confident in your ability to make them like you, you will have a lot of success even if you're 5'5 with a plastic ring and a face like Jim Carrey.

 

[Southbound29]

This is anecdotal but about 5 years ago my sister was dating a dude that had a brother that was pale white, about 5' 6 and bald as ****. Dude didn't look like much at all. He even had a chicks name "Stacy".
We went to a bar with a decent amount of people.

We were playing pool and a few loud mouth alpha types kept wanting to arm wrestle us while we were doing our own thing. It finally came to a head and we told em to **** off. They went to the bar and starting chatting up a cutie sitting there alone. Seeing this, Stacy decided he wanted to show these guys up, so he walks over to her and hops up on a stool (literally...). Short ****ed. lol.

Anyway, this dude had balls of steel and confidence out the ass. He sat there and literally took the chicks focus off these big loud dudes and had her in his bed a few hours later. I know some of you guys are rolling your eyes and saying he got lucky or whatever excuse but I witnessed this from start to finish.

A very short, pale, bald as vern troyer dude snagged a chick from a few 230+ pound loud mouths. He did it by literally not giving a **** and focusing on making the woman comfortable and talking to her differently than most other guys.

I found out later that this dude had a good looking wife at home with 4 kids and another good looking crazy ex with another kid that was stalking him. Sit there and hamster it how ever you want but this dude pulled women and he didn' have any of the physical alpha traits that red pill guys complain about.

Some chicks are only going to go for certain traits and looks, that' how it is, but confidence will take you waaaaaay further with a lot of women than looks or money will.

If you think I'm talking ****, PM me. I'll show you the dude and the chicks he messes with.

Edit: Better yet, if it's allowed I will post a pic of him and his current one with their eyes blacked out. She's the same height as him and the top of her head stops at my nose level.