"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if you date down, you'll (probably) never be cheated on

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I realized something at the end of this post... it's more about what she thinks of herself rather than value

if she thinks she's low or medium value she's unlikely to cheat on you and will generally aim to please you(because as far as she knows you can do better at any moment and she's still confused as to why you aren't)

EDIT: it sort of plays into why I've always imagined that finding a really hot girl with low self esteem would be awwwwwweeeeeesoooooooome

all the rewards of an HB9 for the effort of getting and keeping a HB5(that is aware of how not great she is)

jeffreylebowski said:
Sure...unless he actually treats her well...which might make her question what he sees in her...which makes her think he must not be that great...

Jus sayin

...my god, are there women who would really think like that? well I guess it makes sense, that is more or less the opposite of what I would do(I'd jump for joy at my newly realized awesomeness) and I've been told that my ego is huge

actually now that I think about it, you don't have to treat her badly to project awesomeness

just constantly be better than what she thinks she deserves/can get when in doubt find some way to slip in your hottest exes into conversation(ones that make her look like krillin from DBZ by comparison)
americaninbangkok said:
The reason why it's better to date down is most of these types NEED you or at least feel they do.
yeah, that's pretty great.

PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Has happened to me twice.
really? if you don't mind I'd love to hear those stories

ebracer05 said:
I would ask though, if you really are the Great Catch, would she risk losing you to cheat?
apparantly.

In2theGame said:
IMO it doesnt matter if shes higher value or lower. If shes a "high value" HB 9+ then the chances for her to cheat are obviously there however she may get so much attention that she may get annoyed at all the guys hitting on her and if she finds a guy she really likes then might stick with him since she's delt with alot of "creeps" but cant let your guard down completely since you know the risk. A lower value chick might definitely cheat because if she has you, it may go to her head at some point and she may feel like she needs more attention from other guys and feel she can get the next guy. The girl you think wouldnt cheat because your higher value may surprise you.
the people who can't be trusted with a million dollars don't have a million dollars to squander

UNLESS!

the money is married into or inherited

all looks are inherited, ergo you're very much at risk of finding a hot chick who'll let the attention go to her head(unless she was ugly for a long time or something)

meanwhile lower value chicks who are aware of it(that part is key) aim to please

(here is where I reached what I said at the beginning of the post)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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