If you could tell something to your 20 year old self...

[blind_one]

If you could tell something to your 20 year self... What would it be ?

I'm pretty sure that there was a thread like that before but lets brainstorm a little together.

I'll Start:

" If you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right ones a chance to catch you '' - author unknown

Learn to be happy while single/alone.

Develop you're hobbies or find them. If you find yourself reading/watching long hours on some subject you might be on track:yes: .

 

[TheException]

Dont you dare get caught up in one female. Spin plates and have lots of options. Dont put your eggs into one basket. Quit trying to win the attention of women who have lukewarm interest in you....instead hangout with those women who have a soaring interest in you. They will make it easy for ya...

 

[GS750]

She is not special. She is not "the one". She does not complete you. There are millions of girls in the world just like her that can make you just as happy if not more happy. Oh...and she'll get fat in a few years and you'll see her in the mall and you'll laugh about it.

 

[Die Hard]

If you treat girls like they're lucky to get your attention, they will magically start believing that they ARE lucky to get your attention!

 

[apprenticedj]

Quit smoking pot!

 

[j.619]

Quit smoking pot!

Not this

 

[GADavid]

Life takes work:
Earn money instead of being broke. If nothing else, it makes you meet people.
Workout and eat well. There are zero short cuts. Those who look effortless are most often trying the hardest every moment.
Figure out your career and pursue it rabidly.
You are not too young.

 

[VikingKing]

All the winning power ball numbers.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

probably wish I told myself this at 18 but 20 is close enough but to make sure you deal with discomfort around women, go out as much as you can earlier

 

[Nn877]

^^^ wish I told myself at 15 lol

 

[Thorninmyside]

Everything is going to get 10x harder than you ever thought possible! Brace yourself!

 

[JaegerPilot217]

That men are the laborers of life and creators of civilizations, that's why men are expected to be responsible and take action, take control for almost everything in life