"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you could tell something to your 20 year old self...

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If you could tell something to your 20 year self... What would it be ?

I'm pretty sure that there was a thread like that before but lets brainstorm a little together.

I'll Start:

" If you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right ones a chance to catch you '' - author unknown

Learn to be happy while single/alone.

Develop you're hobbies or find them. If you find yourself reading/watching long hours on some subject you might be on track:yes: .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dont you dare get caught up in one female. Spin plates and have lots of options. Dont put your eggs into one basket. Quit trying to win the attention of women who have lukewarm interest in you....instead hangout with those women who have a soaring interest in you. They will make it easy for ya...
 
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She is not special. She is not "the one". She does not complete you. There are millions of girls in the world just like her that can make you just as happy if not more happy. Oh...and she'll get fat in a few years and you'll see her in the mall and you'll laugh about it.
 
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If you treat girls like they're lucky to get your attention, they will magically start believing that they ARE lucky to get your attention!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Life takes work:
Earn money instead of being broke. If nothing else, it makes you meet people.
Workout and eat well. There are zero short cuts. Those who look effortless are most often trying the hardest every moment.
Figure out your career and pursue it rabidly.
You are not too young.
 
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probably wish I told myself this at 18 but 20 is close enough but to make sure you deal with discomfort around women, go out as much as you can earlier
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Everything is going to get 10x harder than you ever thought possible! Brace yourself!
 
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That men are the laborers of life and creators of civilizations, that's why men are expected to be responsible and take action, take control for almost everything in life
 
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