Huh? No it isn't. It is pure American. Try taking a girl out at night there. She probably won't even be old enough to get into the bar! :crackup:Guoy Darko said:San Francisco: Been there, loved it. It's a very open minded and almost European city.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Huh? No it isn't. It is pure American. Try taking a girl out at night there. She probably won't even be old enough to get into the bar! :crackup:Guoy Darko said:San Francisco: Been there, loved it. It's a very open minded and almost European city.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wow, you are quite the armchair traveler. Drug lords and exploding cars. :crackup: Do me a favor and use your passport. You might be surprised. Things are not always as the media (especially the American media) portrays them. You have a better chance of being killed on the roads of America than you do getting blown up or shot in Colombia or Moscow. Yet, you still drive in America.Julius_Seizeher said:That's the spirit of a welcome immigrant. He's researched our country enough to know how bad it would suck to live in Flint, Michigan, and he's cool with that anyway. Though Colombia is a beautiful country, justice and law enforcement is a for-profit enterprise there and they still have the same old problems with drug lords and exploding cars.
I also own a house in Los Angeles and would probably end up living there. And yes, I've seen Flint. It's a **** place, but at least you won't get killed because you saw the wrong guy in the eye, or because the guy woke up angry and decided to kill a random guy in the street.He's researched our country enough to know how bad it would suck to live in Flint, Michigan, and he's cool with that anyway.
Quite wrong. I'm still here in Medellin in Colombia and been here for 21 years. I also believe this place is hell itself. Somebody from Medellin won't usually tell you this because they're very wary of the image they're trying to show to the whole world but when you're part of this society, you realize there's more under the surface, some stuff they don't tell you if you're a foreigner. You find out this place is also called Metrallo and the City of the everlasting gunfight, you find out the police has pacts with every other criminal. You wake up at 2 am because a lost bullet just took your window down. You have to bolt out of a nightclub because this guy thinks you're flirting with a woman you've never seen. You also happen to remember that you used to have 9 cousins but you currently have 4 because the others were killed or had to flee from the city. You go out for a walk and get stabbed because you don't have money.You learn that bellavista, the city's biggest jail is on 800% capacity and they let rapists and thieves walk away because there's not enough space for so many rotten beings.I suspect the original poster is living right in America. Anyone familiar with Colombia would not say what he did.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
First of all, a Caucasian is someone from the Caucasus mountains. Think Chechen, Ingush, Armenian, Georgian, etc. In Russian the term is: Kavkaz.Kailex said:Big Jimbo... have YOU been to Colombia?
Just the fact alone that this place is ground zero for burundanga and the production of scopolamine makes the place scary enough...
And before you ask, yes, I have been to Colombia. And amazingly, I have an easier time there than your normal Caucasian tourist, because... I'm not Caucasian. The horror stories are true.
I've been to Costa Rica (wonderful place), Colombia, Argentina, Venezuela, Dominican Republic, and Cuba... and I'd have to say that Colombia was probably the scariest one with Costa Rica followed by Cuba as the best experiences I've had in Latin America.
Oh, and yes, I have been to Europe.
Being a dual citizen did have its advantages at many points so I saw a LOT of it as well.
But... back to the topic... if I move from Jersey, I'm picking San Francisco... the easiest social atmosphere EVER. People who live in San Francisco and say they have no friends, are just simply not walking out of their apartments.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So it is more dangerous to be in some U.S. cities than in Iraq/Afghanistan! Or at least your chances of getting killed are higher.So far this year, 113 people have been killed across Chicago, the same number of U.S. troops killed in Iraq and Afghanistan combined in the same period, Fritchey said.