"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you could get hitched to a fine piece of a$$

Poonani Maker

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would you do it? and forgo all other women for the REST of your life? or would you forgo the sure thing to the fine piece of a$$ in order to maintain your options, your variety? At what point in life are you? Are you at that point where you've had your fill? and don't need to sample any more pu$$y or are you still not satisfied with all that you tried? or are you perfectly ok with getting locked in to ONE pu$$y 4 life?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she is a nymphomaniac, then yes. If she's a typical b!tch, then no. And if the nympho stops putting out, I would divorce her ass right away and not be afraid of letting her know this while we were married.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
If she is a nymphomaniac, then yes. If she's a typical b!tch, then no. And if the nympho stops putting out, I would divorce her ass right away and not be afraid of letting her know this while we were married.
The one I'm talkin about is a little nymphish I think. She wants kids Now! Thanks fer yer help.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so who's controlling who here?
 

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"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty women your wife. So from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you."
 
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