check out this guy, he knew over 60 languages as a proven fact and he was not even completely nuts, but a lawyer and diplomat...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emil_Krebs
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emil_Krebs
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know if you can be truly fluent in 50+ languages, but you can definately be fluent in two or three. It's all about speaking the language often enough with native speakers, and hearing the language a lot.3countriesPlan said:lol his brain was 'taken"
that sucks.. anyways he must really have been extremely elite to master so many languages. But, is it possible for people to attain native speaker status in other languages? Or more importantly over 50 others!?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
你會說依點漢語? 現在全球興起學中文的風潮呢..mexican_player2 said:i know english, español and Wŏ huì shuō yī dian Hàn yŭ
i only know pin yin!!3countriesPlan said:你會說依點漢語? 現在全球興起學中文的風潮呢..
Ni3 hui4 shuo1 yi4 dian3 han4 yu3? Xian4 zai4 quan2 qiu2 xing1 qi3 xue2 zhong1 wen2 de feng1 chao2 ne.mexican_player2 said:i only know pin yin!!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Once you get a few down, you start to pick up others easily. English, Spanish, Portuguese, Italian, etc. share a lot of common roots, so learning many of those languages, particularly in the area of audio comprehension, is much easier as you go along.Fred Da Head said:I don't know if you can be truly fluent in 50+ languages, but you can definately be fluent in two or three. It's all about speaking the language often enough with native speakers, and hearing the language a lot.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.