"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you could ask a woman ANYTHING about dating/sex/etc what would you want to know?

doubledown11

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I am considering collecting data by interviewing lots of women of varied beauty, race, etc. questions on sex, dating, relationships, etc. in a goal of collecting useful information for the 'community'.

So far I'm thinking of asking questions regarding - how they met their last boyfriend, what makes a good 'approach' in their eyes, etc.

I am also considering interviewing men who have results with women.

Eventually I think to have a large resource like this could be helpful, but only if the questions are useful enough.

So that's where you come in. What would you want to discover?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Groovy

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I'd ask how they feel about eye contact (good, bad) and what are some turn offs, and how do they feel about guys for example seeking their approval. I'd like to know what goes exactly through the mind of a chick when the guy is seeking approval... I bet it's an instant turn off, she must immediatly disqualify him....... even if she does it unconsciously. It's got to be like the worse thing ever... SO LAME
 

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I wouldn't ask sh*t because I know I'd get nice guy advice. Never ask a woman about dating and relationships cuz they tell you what they think they want. Only ask a girl to set you up with her friends or be your wingwoman.

Ask men about what women want.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GetOveIT

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Not a single thing...... women are lost deal with it.
 

DJ Miquelo

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Captain said:
Nothing, because women don't know what they want, and couldn't tell you straight even if they did.

THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS!

but yeah... women dont have a clue what they want or like... they arnt as logical thinkers as we are...
 

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Why all the make up when most of you are prettier without it.
 
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