"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you can't get away from the computer, read this

Lifeforce

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I don't know if you are like me, I get easily stuck at the computer, there is much stuff to do, watch movies, play some games and surf and all that. Considering I've been studying over the internet being with a computer was a daily part of life. Just a tip for everyone of you who have trouble getting away from it. I gave my friend my graphic card and told him he wasn't allowed to give it back in 2 months. I got ****loads of spare time and so much great stuff to do now. Try it out.

Anyways, I'll see you in 2 months. Have a great summer.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Phantasmal

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I'm going to do something like this. I don't understand though. Are you using some other computer or did you just take out the card so you can't play games?
 

Oxide

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I lived without TV for the whole school year. The thing is, one thing goes down, another one will come up. For me it was computer/ xbox. Sure i wasnt watching TV, but i was playing video games..

Going away from this site for 3 weeks is what i'd advice. I've gone away many times, but id say at around 20-25 days you really want to go back and post something "radical"

Dont quit it all together for 2 months, just limit it a bit. Going away from sosuave and posting on masf or some other site for 2 months is not acceptable either.

I would just suggest giving yourself an hour a day to check all this, or something like "from 5-8pm" i have to do something besides watching tv or playing on computer.
 

david90

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nice tip.

Anyone want me computer?

Is there a program that I can download that limits my computer usage to say at 11pm?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blinkwatt

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yes i too find this boards addictive but nonetheless i learn something new everytime i visit.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by david90
nice tip.

Anyone want me computer?

Is there a program that I can download that limits my computer usage to say at 11pm?
yes its called will power :p

you should be bale to stick to these things no problem, its easier then a diet because your body has a natrual urge for food, but not a nutral urge for playing on the computer.

Its easy to use the pc to much but once you say to yourself i will not use it then you should mange to keep to it!
 
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