Silverback82
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this might have been true in the 1800's
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you aren't married by 26, can you still be happy for the rest of your life?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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What sort of grown MAN connects marriage with happiness in this day and age?
The only groups that think the worlds falling apart if theyre not married are chicks, AFC's and faggots.
Utter nonsense, you should be banned.
The only groups that think the worlds falling apart if theyre not married are chicks, AFC's and faggots.
Chick logic if I've ever seen it, this chick and or faggot must have forgotten he/she will be waking up to the same snatch EVERY day, and funny enough as you grow older so does she science wizard...woops.
Utter nonsense, you should be banned.
KarmaSutra
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Eureka! Consent has a life of wallowing in his own misery and complacency to look forward to. Lucky c0cksucker that he is.
I'd like to kick him square in the ball ( the left one hasn't dropped yet).
I'd like to kick him square in the ball ( the left one hasn't dropped yet).
Tomatoes
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If due to relgion or upbringing you will be a disgrace i agree....
Otherwise the start of this post is the biggest load of dribbling bullsh!t i have ever seen.
I know older blokes who are not married but VERY happy with an active sex life. I have a stunning 23 year old friend (HB8.5) who has just been dating a 30 year old. As you get older.....age becomes less of a big deal. The day you belive you have failed in life.....is the day you die. No other.
Otherwise the start of this post is the biggest load of dribbling bullsh!t i have ever seen.
I know older blokes who are not married but VERY happy with an active sex life. I have a stunning 23 year old friend (HB8.5) who has just been dating a 30 year old. As you get older.....age becomes less of a big deal. The day you belive you have failed in life.....is the day you die. No other.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Aerospace
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Consent... where can I start? You may be right, but why post such a ridicolous pessimistic load of bullsh*t? Are you trying to ruin our mood, by any mean? This should be a motivational board, not a board in which failures and/or frauds like you come and whine about their worthless life. Come on, you're just 26 years old. Life expectancy is something like 80 years! You've got plenty of time to find your personal meaning of life (and I hope it's not solely to bang a random wife, it would suck).
Repeat: why post such a thread? To achieve what kind of goal? Bask in your self-commiseration, waiting for us to prey on your self-esteem a little bit?
Now: you can do two things to change your life once for all:
A) Consider suicide. Rapid, not so much painful as your consideration of life and most importantly with no consequences for you.
B) Get your a$$ in gear! Be confident, think about your talents and the way through which you can change the space and time around you. And when you'll have taken a grip on your life, try and have some fun with the ladies, 'cause it's a game!
Maybe you're just a troll, one of these faceless losers that ruin forums with no apparent reason (maybe the lack of a life?) - in this case f*ck off.
Repeat: why post such a thread? To achieve what kind of goal? Bask in your self-commiseration, waiting for us to prey on your self-esteem a little bit?
Now: you can do two things to change your life once for all:
A) Consider suicide. Rapid, not so much painful as your consideration of life and most importantly with no consequences for you.
B) Get your a$$ in gear! Be confident, think about your talents and the way through which you can change the space and time around you. And when you'll have taken a grip on your life, try and have some fun with the ladies, 'cause it's a game!
Maybe you're just a troll, one of these faceless losers that ruin forums with no apparent reason (maybe the lack of a life?) - in this case f*ck off.
Socialreject
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How about you Consent? Are you married?
Your post is the biggest rubbish i have seen in a long time... and i have seen PLENTY of rubbish on these boards.
You are essentially connecting success and happiness with marriage. You don't see anything wrong with this?
If you had to choose between knowledge, experience, wealth, charisma, charm, personality.... and a wedding ring. Which would you choose? The wedding ring?
Sure, no cheer leader chick would EVER go for a much older guy! In fact i know lots of cheer leaders who are utterly REPULSED at even the notion of sleeping with the now 40 year old Brad Pitt. And none of them would actually consider marrying him either! To that i can only say "ORLY??"
You know... it's funny. Every time i think I've seen the most retarded, most simplistic and idiotic life philosophy... some guy comes out with an even more retarded, simplistic and idiotic one....
You can say a lot of things about idiots... but they sure are innovating!
Your post is the biggest rubbish i have seen in a long time... and i have seen PLENTY of rubbish on these boards.
You are essentially connecting success and happiness with marriage. You don't see anything wrong with this?
If you had to choose between knowledge, experience, wealth, charisma, charm, personality.... and a wedding ring. Which would you choose? The wedding ring?
Sure, no cheer leader chick would EVER go for a much older guy! In fact i know lots of cheer leaders who are utterly REPULSED at even the notion of sleeping with the now 40 year old Brad Pitt. And none of them would actually consider marrying him either! To that i can only say "ORLY??"
You know... it's funny. Every time i think I've seen the most retarded, most simplistic and idiotic life philosophy... some guy comes out with an even more retarded, simplistic and idiotic one....
You can say a lot of things about idiots... but they sure are innovating!
Derek Flint
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LOL - I'm 46 and still pull girls that are 26
Last one was the weekend before last, a 28 year old HB8
I'm having the time of my life.
Limiting beliefs are for fools and AFC's
I would say that just about anyone that gets married is going to end up unhappy, not the other way around.
Last one was the weekend before last, a 28 year old HB8
I'm having the time of my life.
Limiting beliefs are for fools and AFC's
I would say that just about anyone that gets married is going to end up unhappy, not the other way around.
You can only feel sad for this guy
This guy needs to have more faith.
He doesn't realize how lucky he is that is isn't married to a woman that has no respect for him.
You play a huge risk in North America when you get married. If you don't have the wisdom to select the right kind of woman then you will be in for a world of hurt. Finding a good woman for marriage is very difficult if not impossible when you know what qualities are important.
The sad thing is that this post sounds like something that comes out of a womans mouth. I've heard many women say things like that but this is the first time a guy has. (hmm.. perhaps it is a woman)
This guy needs to have more faith.
He doesn't realize how lucky he is that is isn't married to a woman that has no respect for him.
You play a huge risk in North America when you get married. If you don't have the wisdom to select the right kind of woman then you will be in for a world of hurt. Finding a good woman for marriage is very difficult if not impossible when you know what qualities are important.
The sad thing is that this post sounds like something that comes out of a womans mouth. I've heard many women say things like that but this is the first time a guy has. (hmm.. perhaps it is a woman)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VSIDEBOY
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Consent said:
DUDE, if you disagree with this stuff then WHY THE FCUK are you here?
Go and post some stuff on cross-stitch weekly forum or cake decorating for beginners forum.
Personally you sound like your thoughts and post make you sound like a chic, ARE YOU???
:kick:
Seriously I don't ever want to get married, why should I? £10 to £15 grand on 1 DAY?
Rollo Tomassi
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spider_007
Master Don Juan
two points maybe you need to think about
-you have to be happy with your self first. Relaying on someone else to make you happy is looking for TROUBLE.
-look around how many 30+ women are hot. Next time you walk down a street look at all 30+ women and see how many are actually hot, and be glad your not stuck with one of them TILL YOU DIE.
-you have to be happy with your self first. Relaying on someone else to make you happy is looking for TROUBLE.
-look around how many 30+ women are hot. Next time you walk down a street look at all 30+ women and see how many are actually hot, and be glad your not stuck with one of them TILL YOU DIE.
crumpiteer
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i'm 28 yrs old..still, i believe we have time on our side, as long as we keep improving ourselves and always project value...
Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Johnny Deep, Pierce Brosnan. What do all these men have in common? They are all in their 40's and 50's. Men like Sean Connery, Paul Newman, Harry Belafonte, Robert Redford are all senior citizens, and they are still considered sexy by many many women. That is the kind of staying power that we have as men.
Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, George Clooney, Johnny Deep, Pierce Brosnan. What do all these men have in common? They are all in their 40's and 50's. Men like Sean Connery, Paul Newman, Harry Belafonte, Robert Redford are all senior citizens, and they are still considered sexy by many many women. That is the kind of staying power that we have as men.
gongxia649
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funny post hehehe
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yes you can.
not all marriages are happy nor healthy, so being married at any age doesnt equal happiness.
not all marriages are happy nor healthy, so being married at any age doesnt equal happiness.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.