"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the guy in the hoody and the one standing next to the girl look like the same person to me.
 

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Originally posted by RyanZ
Oh yeah. Post YOUR picture, and YOUR girlfriend.
Sure thing.
http://www.jbspencer.com/jerhol.jpg

Or, you could just always check out:

http://www.jbspencer.com/girls
http://www.jbspencer.com/toga
http://www.jbspencer.com/mardigras05
http://www.jbspencer.com/xmastime
http://www.jbspencer.com/fourth
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Originally posted by rgeere
which also leaves the rest of us to wait for a mod to log on and do something about this useless crap.
Done and done. Thread closed.
 
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