"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you are trying to diet/cut you MUST read this

check_mate_kid_uk

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If you ever need help with nutrition and excersize im your guy.

But for now I have some shocking news for you. Remember this next time i advise you to excersize.



Weight loss with out excersize can increase your bf% yep you heard me correctly it can increase your body fat percentage. Excersize maintains your muscles. Whilst lowenirg your calorie intake will destroy fat and muscle. Muscle is destroyed more then fat because it is more water based. If you excersize your body will maintian the muscle.

If you do not excersize then your muscles will just disapear, you may loose weight but because most of the weight you lost was muscle mass, the proportion of your body made up of fat will now be larger then before, hence a larger bodyfat %

Next time i say excersize, take my word for it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think most people who write here are very fanatical about not losing muscle. It's common sense, the body don't need the muscles if they are not used. Not any exercise will do, heavy compound lifting in the gym, not some running in the tracks.
 

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Actuly running will do. Well it will do for your legs, it does not work your upper body thats why runners have skinny upper bodys. But like if you did a lot of swimming it would maintain your muscles as they are asuming they are like normal, obviously if you are really built then you will need to workout with heavy weights to keep your muscles.
 
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