You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
yeah, in an urban area you can meet a girl anywhereMonster said:I could not agree with you more. If you drink you can't drive. And who would want to take public transportation for an hour in the middle of the night.
yeah, in an urban area you can meet a girl anywhereMonster said:I could not agree with you more. If you drink you can't drive. And who would want to take public transportation for an hour in the middle of the night.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
haha...So the Scots still hate the English? Probably, not as much as the Irish hate them...Ben MacDui said:Generally but doesn't always work.
An old university friend of mine moved from rural England to Edinburgh (a quite large city) and told me that he found it almost impossible to have much luck with the Scottish girls due to the fact he was English and the rivalry thereof.
Yep lol. I'm not sure I'd recommend him going to sarge in Londonderry or East Belfast quite yet....mahon83050 said:haha...So the Scots still hate the English? Probably, not as much as the Irish hate them...