You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yeah, in an urban area you can meet a girl anywhereMonster said:I could not agree with you more. If you drink you can't drive. And who would want to take public transportation for an hour in the middle of the night.
yeah, in an urban area you can meet a girl anywhereMonster said:I could not agree with you more. If you drink you can't drive. And who would want to take public transportation for an hour in the middle of the night.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
haha...So the Scots still hate the English? Probably, not as much as the Irish hate them...Ben MacDui said:Generally but doesn't always work.
An old university friend of mine moved from rural England to Edinburgh (a quite large city) and told me that he found it almost impossible to have much luck with the Scottish girls due to the fact he was English and the rivalry thereof.
Yep lol. I'm not sure I'd recommend him going to sarge in Londonderry or East Belfast quite yet....mahon83050 said:haha...So the Scots still hate the English? Probably, not as much as the Irish hate them...