"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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IF you ARE single and having women troubles

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djgirl said:
i like how i get flamed just because im a chick whose just trying to point out a few things :-/

i'll agree im not the perfect PUA, ive been dating since i was 18 and im 24 now and have only had 2 short relationships with women who have left me for other people, and same with girls ive just hooked up with...they just play me untill they find someone better...around around it goes.

guys seem to only use me for sex as you can see on my other thread.....i dont know when things are going to turn around for me
If guys only seem to use you for sex, what do the women use you for?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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