"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iqqi

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you are a pvssy.

but nevertheless, i will enlighten you with this tip that has worked for the past few men pursuing me.

if you are unsure of her IL, or afraid she will sh!t test you with a rejection, then do this. call her up, pretend like you are just calling to say what's up. tell her you are in the process of finding something to do, waiting for your boys to call you back. but you are feeling kind of not in the mood for a boys night out. spread all this out, mind you, so that it is not too obvious where you are headed. and along the way you will find out if she already has plans or whatever. finally mention that you really just wanted to go to the movies (or whatever), but your boys are tripping, trying to party.

two things will happen if she wants to see you.

1. she may feel slightly annoyed since you aren't just asking her. (well, then again i am good at seeing through this sh!t)

but

2. she will say, "well, we can go to the movies, if you want."

ta da!

easy as pie, for all the scared lil pvssies out there.

thank your auntie iqqles!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Silquee Smoove

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This is the problem I have with you "Icky". You dispense advice which is good natured with name-calling and in the process manage to label those who haven't had the experience yet as "p*ssies". Say what you please but it seems like your posts are nothing more than a watered down attempt at trolling.
 

Don Corleon

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good advice for a newbie to use or for somebody who has trouble with confidence, but no need to be so blunt about being a Pu$$y
 

Chewy Bagel

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This seems like good advice to a younger person with female friends.

Us older guys (or at least me) have already made our intentions known when we get a girl's phone #. :)
 
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