If you are obese and you catch covid then there is a problem

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Master Don Juan

May 16, 2020

I'm buying a scale to measure my BMI and ordered it from Amazon. Have to get serious about getting a handle on my weight and losing as much as I can.
It turns out that fat people tend to get complications and die from this virus, particularly if the BMI is above 40, and even wouldn't want to chance it if it's above 30. Is this going to motivate people to become lean and lose weight?

You can't afford to risk catching this virus if you are fat.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.