"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If you are 25, almost 26 and still live with your parents and no college degree

JaegerPilot217

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and currently working a retail job, at a grocery store to be more specific, are your options going to be very limited with women? I do have a car though but I still live with my parents, am I screwed when it comes to getting a girlfriend? and I will be honest, I do want a girlfriend, but I am not interested in settling down anytime soon, I just want to date around but not a serious girlfriend with wife potential, just a girlfriend. Any guys you know of that still manage to successfully pull girls while being in this age range despite still living at home, no college degree and working a minimum-wage job? Now don't get me wrong, I don't plan on living with my parents for the rest of my life and I obviously don't plan on working in a grocery store, minimum-wage job for the rest of my life, it's just for a while I never knew what I wanted to do, and still kinda unsure but leaning towards either graphic design or veterinary sciences, yes I know they are complete different stretches, just working this type of job to have some sort of income at the moment, so what do you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just make up some BS business plan and tell girls you're saving up for it. Act sure that you know it's going to make you successful. Give them something to help rationalize away the fact that you're broke, at least temporarily.
 

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Dude im 26, live with my dad. I pull girls weekly, and i mean legit every week. After a while you just know what do/say and its becomes easy from there.
 

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A girl I was once friends with dated a guy who was known to eat popcorn off the movie theater floor and roll around on the ground in establishments. He rolled several times in her presence.

:cheer:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not a problem with women, but I *had* a lot of friends still living with their parents, still going to school and working retail. The moment they live independently, they will be screwed. I have been living independently since 17 and have learned valuable lessons in finance and lifestyle.

I have had friends that came back from college to live with their parents again, they no longer have the motivation to move out because the financial situation was too good to be true.

Word of advice, save up 9 months living expenses (Rent, utilities, transportation, living and leisure) before you decide to live on your own.
 

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BeDJ said:
Not a problem with women, but I *had* a lot of friends still living with their parents, still going to school and working retail. The moment they live independently, they will be screwed. I have been living independently since 17 and have learned valuable lessons in finance and lifestyle.

I have had friends that came back from college to live with their parents again, they no longer have the motivation to move out because the financial situation was too good to be true.

Word of advice, save up 9 months living expenses (Rent, utilities, transportation, living and leisure) before you decide to live on your own.
Living with your parent's you are able
To save a lot of money.

I only give parents 200 a month and that includes food and bills. Lol
 

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If you're an 8+ it won't matter.

If you're a 5, well you can forget about it.
 

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JaegerPilot217 said:
and currently working a retail job, at a grocery store to be more specific, are your options going to be very limited with women? I do have a car though but I still live with my parents, am I screwed when it comes to getting a girlfriend? and I will be honest, I do want a girlfriend, but I am not interested in settling down anytime soon, I just want to date around but not a serious girlfriend with wife potential, just a girlfriend. Any guys you know of that still manage to successfully pull girls while being in this age range despite still living at home, no college degree and working a minimum-wage job? Now don't get me wrong, I don't plan on living with my parents for the rest of my life and I obviously don't plan on working in a grocery store, minimum-wage job for the rest of my life, it's just for a while I never knew what I wanted to do, and still kinda unsure but leaning towards either graphic design or veterinary sciences, yes I know they are complete different stretches, just working this type of job to have some sort of income at the moment, so what do you think?
i'm presuming you will be getting a degree because those kind of jobs are nigh on impossible to get without one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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^^ Not in the graphic design field. But the competition is rough.
 

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You can tell the anything you want to at first...i used to pull all the time living at home in my young 20s.....and as far as simply banging them..it makes no difference...just tell the what they want to hear....it's only a limit if you make it one...
 

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Change the age to 45 and you could still pull. Your primary weapon of seduction is emotions. Create the right emotions in a girl and your external situation becomes irrelevant....within reason. Dont expect to have millionair 10s begging to marry you on the regular. You'd probably still be able to bang em though lol
 

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I was going to post this yesterday in hear but I had reached my limit for a day, I have been going to the gym for almost a year now, I went from being a waist 40 to a waist 34, and I used to weigh 215 to now weighing 170lbs!
 

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I'm 26, in medical school, live about several hours flight away from home and still can't get the # of pu$$y that you have the potential of obtaining. You know why? Because I'm so incredibly busy with studying! No time for anything else.

So you have so much potential right now. All you need to do is dress well, and go out to clubs. The girls you meet have apartments/houses of their own that you can go to if needed. Also, there's no reason why you can't bring a girl over to your place. You are almost 26, your parents will understand!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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and plus I don't see why girls should be against renting a hotel room for a night or a few days when it comes to sex, i'm more than okay with that
 

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i'm presuming you will be getting a degree because those kind of jobs are nigh on impossible to get without one.
yeah now it's just a matter of me knowing how long it's gonna take for me to get a degree, I've only completed a few community college classes but haven't transferred out of community college yet
 

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but overall, I want to know any success stories of other guys in this age rage that still live at home, no college degree yet and are still able to successfully pull *****, or just be able to get a girlfriend
 

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but overall, I want to know any success stories of other guys in this age rage that still live at home, no college degree yet and are still able to successfully pull *****, or just be able to get a girlfriend
If you go for younger girls, its not about status, money, or education. All you need to do is tell them you are in college and studying towards a bachelor of science in xxxxxx. The younger girls care only about having fun and as long as you're a fun guy, nothing will stand in your way!
 

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alpha_ash said:
If you go for younger girls, its not about status, money, or education. All you need to do is tell them you are in college and studying towards a bachelor of science in xxxxxx. The younger girls care only about having fun and as long as you're a fun guy, nothing will stand in your way!
in what age range would those girls be in? what is usually their last age for having fun and in which status, money and education does not matter?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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