were they wont let go of one branch until they have hold of another.. what would you do in this situation..
I met this girl a the end of of last year. She had a bf, he was overseas. I started dating her and fvckin her etc (she was grabbin my branch - no pun intended haha). Then he came back for 5 days.. she spent it with me and i think saw him once. Then he left to some country to work. Then she went overseas (not to the same place as him) back to her fam in her country (overseas student) for xmas.. She came back, he aint here, we start spendin time more.
The other day he came back outa nowhere so he could get his passport for this country, hes leaving on Tuesday and he probably wont ever come back. I (probably outa line) encouraged her to dump him and get all his stuff out of her house).. Shes doin that now. Im trying to stop her from spendin time with him. She finds it hard to split with him and is gona give him the excuse of "Oh we gona liv in diff countries no point continuing" rather than the truth of "im fvckin someone else"... Now im kinda pissed cos we were goin along quite nicely and hes fvckin it up..
My question is: Would you consider her initial actions toward me (ie: cheatin on her useless bf whos in another country n hardly contacts her) a red light?? or is it normal female/monkey behaviour?
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Is it a red light that after their 2 yr relationship that she felt she put so much effort into she still has feelings for that guy. THe other night they went out for his bday (she took her sister and assured me shed never be alone with him) but somehow they were n she said he kissed her n she felt like she was cheating on ME.. She also said that "it felt wrong to kiss him, but it wasnt like i didnt want to cos i guess i still love him.. all that effort i put in"..
Anyway hes gone next tuesday. I like this chick and i dont really want him to fvck her before he goes back or even touch her.. so i guess im puttin preasure on a bit..
At the same time im not askin for exclusiveness but damn.. jus feels kinda sh*t if some other guy gets some play with her, esp if hes only here a couple days.. IS this normal though?? GIrls are always fvckin and its better to wait for exclusiveness or is this chick really a slvt??
What would you do?? Let her do whatever she wants since we aint exclusive?? but wouldnt u feel bad tho that someones just pushed in on ur game (even tho i guess ive pushed in on his lol).. I cant help thinkin its normal for her to hav some IL in him.. but i dont want him near her..
If girls are like monkeys and hot girls are hardly ever single..i imagine these kinda situations would happen alot.. chick havin trouble letting go etc..
What would be your conditions of datin this chick even if u didnt nescesarily wana be exclusive? Would u still date her or would u jus think shes a hoe for considering seein that guy?
I met this girl a the end of of last year. She had a bf, he was overseas. I started dating her and fvckin her etc (she was grabbin my branch - no pun intended haha). Then he came back for 5 days.. she spent it with me and i think saw him once. Then he left to some country to work. Then she went overseas (not to the same place as him) back to her fam in her country (overseas student) for xmas.. She came back, he aint here, we start spendin time more.
The other day he came back outa nowhere so he could get his passport for this country, hes leaving on Tuesday and he probably wont ever come back. I (probably outa line) encouraged her to dump him and get all his stuff out of her house).. Shes doin that now. Im trying to stop her from spendin time with him. She finds it hard to split with him and is gona give him the excuse of "Oh we gona liv in diff countries no point continuing" rather than the truth of "im fvckin someone else"... Now im kinda pissed cos we were goin along quite nicely and hes fvckin it up..
My question is: Would you consider her initial actions toward me (ie: cheatin on her useless bf whos in another country n hardly contacts her) a red light?? or is it normal female/monkey behaviour?
and
Is it a red light that after their 2 yr relationship that she felt she put so much effort into she still has feelings for that guy. THe other night they went out for his bday (she took her sister and assured me shed never be alone with him) but somehow they were n she said he kissed her n she felt like she was cheating on ME.. She also said that "it felt wrong to kiss him, but it wasnt like i didnt want to cos i guess i still love him.. all that effort i put in"..
Anyway hes gone next tuesday. I like this chick and i dont really want him to fvck her before he goes back or even touch her.. so i guess im puttin preasure on a bit..
At the same time im not askin for exclusiveness but damn.. jus feels kinda sh*t if some other guy gets some play with her, esp if hes only here a couple days.. IS this normal though?? GIrls are always fvckin and its better to wait for exclusiveness or is this chick really a slvt??
What would you do?? Let her do whatever she wants since we aint exclusive?? but wouldnt u feel bad tho that someones just pushed in on ur game (even tho i guess ive pushed in on his lol).. I cant help thinkin its normal for her to hav some IL in him.. but i dont want him near her..
If girls are like monkeys and hot girls are hardly ever single..i imagine these kinda situations would happen alot.. chick havin trouble letting go etc..
What would be your conditions of datin this chick even if u didnt nescesarily wana be exclusive? Would u still date her or would u jus think shes a hoe for considering seein that guy?