englishcrap
Senior Don Juan
How would you guys react to a comment like this ?. If you say no I am not it makes you look like an AFC ?. At the same time I am not a Gigolo so I dont want to lie and say yes.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If Woman Accuses U Of Being Gigolo
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I was accused of this just last night with a woman I just met and spoke to on the phone. The funny thing is that she told me this after she told me that she loved the way I talked, how I made her feel, the way I looked at her; you know the the basic romantic stuff...
I just tell them that I could if I wanted to but it would be too easy and a waste of time and energy. Besides, I wouldn't want to cheapen myself by spreading myself out so thin.
The key is to let them know that you could easily be one but you are selective. And guess who you've selected at that moment? It's a easy ego boost for the woman you're with and will increase her interest level.
Anyway, she's taking me out to brunch this morning. It's easy when you ease their fears of being taken advantage of by you. Just let them know that they're appreciated.
I just tell them that I could if I wanted to but it would be too easy and a waste of time and energy. Besides, I wouldn't want to cheapen myself by spreading myself out so thin.
The key is to let them know that you could easily be one but you are selective. And guess who you've selected at that moment? It's a easy ego boost for the woman you're with and will increase her interest level.
Anyway, she's taking me out to brunch this morning. It's easy when you ease their fears of being taken advantage of by you. Just let them know that they're appreciated.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
When a woman acuses you of anything, or makes a comment to imply or a question that seems to be a $hit-test, you turn it around and throw it back at her:
Her: Are you a gigolo?
You: Are you trying to tell me you're a gigolo?
You: Is that your way of trying to tell me you're a gigolo?
You: What, takes one to know one, huh?
You: Are you trying to tell me you like gigolos?
You: What, are you gigolo obssessed?
You: Are you trying to negotiate my fee?
etc.
Her: Are you a gigolo?
You: Are you trying to tell me you're a gigolo?
You: Is that your way of trying to tell me you're a gigolo?
You: What, takes one to know one, huh?
You: Are you trying to tell me you like gigolos?
You: What, are you gigolo obssessed?
You: Are you trying to negotiate my fee?
etc.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
StringShredder
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Haha, this reminds me of one time I had an online personals reply from some obviously controlling b*tch, who fired me back a little questionnaire about everything: attitudes toward animals, family values, parents, etc. What I do for a living and whatnot. Can you believe it? What a lame b*tch.
I had not noticed that her profile said that she was a christian who attends services regularly. Oooops!
So I had fun with it. I said that for a living, I visit lonely housewives in <well-to-do-area-of-town>, and I have landed a leading role in an up and coming adult film. Animals are good protein sources for building muscle, parents are meddling buffoons who need to stay out of your life, etc.
I had not noticed that her profile said that she was a christian who attends services regularly. Oooops!
So I had fun with it. I said that for a living, I visit lonely housewives in <well-to-do-area-of-town>, and I have landed a leading role in an up and coming adult film. Animals are good protein sources for building muscle, parents are meddling buffoons who need to stay out of your life, etc.
RedKnight04
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Actually I have a question for all of you on this subject..
Have any of you ever been rejected by a girl because she thought you WERE in fact a gigalo? LOL funny saying that word.
I went out with a girl once and worked her so well that she thought I was. I joked around her shyt test when she asked me but she told me "Your just like me (she dated multiple guys at one time), I know how people act when they are and you ARE. I can't date someone like me in that way."
I ended up nexting her because she wanted to be friends after this stupid incident.
Have any of you ever been rejected by a girl because she thought you WERE in fact a gigalo? LOL funny saying that word.
I went out with a girl once and worked her so well that she thought I was. I joked around her shyt test when she asked me but she told me "Your just like me (she dated multiple guys at one time), I know how people act when they are and you ARE. I can't date someone like me in that way."
I ended up nexting her because she wanted to be friends after this stupid incident.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I think I have but I don't think we had enough interaction for me to notice that she was even slightly interested.
However tonight, I just got back from a date with the woman that I had earlier posted about. She thought that I was a player for some reason. The cool thing is that she told me why she thought I was a player.
Get this, she said that from the couple of emails that we exchanged, she felt that I understood her at such an intimate level that it felt scary to her. The only way she could understand that a guy could do that is if he had some special power, not really like a player but something different. I asked "Like a Don Juan?" she said "EXACTLY!!!"
So I just made sure that she felt that whatever I said was genuine. It worked, she's projected helping me cook dinner in my new house that won't be ready until June! A woman projecting you doing things together in the future is a definite sign of a high IL.
Well in a nutshell, I've learned that I must meter my DJ skills on initial approaches. Some women can become concerned about such a quick feeling of familiarity between one another. Play it cool until you can gain a bit more intimate insight with one another while in person.
Anyway, it was an interesting date. We're going to get together again in a few days. The good thing about it is that this one so far meets the majority of my qualifications. Plus she's a hottie that rides a horse, that skill has got to transfer into other areas (I hope).
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
wjh
Master Don Juan
If she calls you a gigalo, you're on the positive side of things. Don't sweat it.
Just keep the convo flowing. Joke around and get to kino, etc.
Just keep the convo flowing. Joke around and get to kino, etc.
Disconnect
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When guys and girls call me a man-wh0re, I take it as a compliment.
xhikari
Don Juan
her : Are you a gigolo??
me : I can give u a discount.....
me : I can give u a discount.....
StringShredder
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I think that just for this occasion, every DJ should have memorized the lyrics to that "I'm just a gigolo" song, and break it out!