Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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If u live in Ca.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So if the person's new they can't wing you? Kind of ****y don't you think?

Jeezus.

Get a few stripes on your sleeve and your too tight?

LOL!

Yeah for all you souther cali heads. Holler at your boy. I'm in Orange Country Cali.

Last week we had a Lair meeting and had over 32+ heads.

See you around this mug.
 

spainlover

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Not ****y, but picky. U should know that bro. I dont want to teach pick up anymore. Im in La.
 

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well bro...if you were really that good you wouldn't be on here asking for a wing. Everyone started off "new" to the game at some point...you need to remember that brother.
 

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Daim! u guys are taking these all the wrong way. I want a wingman here cuz im NOT FROM LA. Im not a pick up master, yet i have my years in the field...and no patience for new guys. I want somebody that knows the area. Geez.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hydro said:
So if the person's new they can't wing you? Kind of ****y don't you think?

Jeezus.

Get a few stripes on your sleeve and your too tight?

LOL!

Yeah for all you souther cali heads. Holler at your boy. I'm in Orange Country Cali.

Last week we had a Lair meeting and had over 32+ heads.

See you around this mug.
CC up n this motha eh?? Welcome.
 

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spainlover said:
Daim! u guys are taking these all the wrong way. I want a wingman here cuz im NOT FROM LA. Im not a pick up master, yet i have my years in the field...and no patience for new guys. I want somebody that knows the area. Geez.
I'm down to wing, and I'm not a noob. I'm in the valley and i know pretty much every goddam spot from around here. peace.
 

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I'm in the valley. My game is still at the junior level, but I won't do any harm.
 

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Drewskie said:
CC up n this motha eh?? Welcome.
LOL! Of course Casanova's in the building. Always looking for new wings, bro. From the newb's to the more advanced that are down to pull. You comin' to my b-day party Drewskie?

Peep the General section on the forum for details.

See you next time I'm up in Hollyweird. Which will be this Friday for the Doc Holiday and Dj Fuji Seminar.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey hidro, just one question man. Ive seen that one of the moderators there is J the ripper. Is he the one from spain?
 

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Hey hidro, just one question man. Ive seen that one of the moderators there is J the ripper. Is he the one from spain?
No. He's from Southern Cali, brother.

He's pretty well known over here, I'm surprised you haven't seen his FR's up on any forums.
 

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Hydro said:
LOL! Of course Casanova's in the building. Always looking for new wings, bro. From the newb's to the more advanced that are down to pull. You comin' to my b-day party Drewskie?

Peep the General section on the forum for details.

See you next time I'm up in Hollyweird. Which will be this Friday for the Doc Holiday and Dj Fuji Seminar.
Cool, I'll most likely be there.
 
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