"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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if u have spaghetti arms get the freak out

Infern0

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Without trolling I think getting in the gym and getting in good condition DEFINATLEY helps when it comes to attracting women.

I used to be 168lbs "skinnyfat" i.e a bit of a pot belly and skinny arms etc. I started working out and within 3 months I was 176, had slightly visable abs and had put about 2" on my arms and just looked way better, and i saw a sharp increase in female attention just from that. I went down a pant size and up a shirt size

But that's not the only reason to do it, excercise is great for the body AND mind, gets those happy chemicals flowing, I love the feeling after a good workout, why wouldn't people want to be fit, healthy and strong? You look better, you feel better, your sexual performance will be better etc etc.

There's a ton of upsides and on downsides, it's just you need to be balanced as with anything in life, don't go on roids or get obsessed, but if you at least eat a good healthy diet and get in the gym 3-4 times a week, I promise theres no downsides to it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think (hope?) OP is just trolling... I quote: "U can't call itself a man". Unfortunately I think he lacks basic education and is venting the frustration of a relatively miserable life online, possibly trying to compensate with (allegedly) big arms.
 
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Girls do like guys with nice biceps for sure but overall it doesnt matter as much.. You can have big biceps and an unattractive face.. Good luck on first impressions

But me ive been lifting/bbing for years so this never was an issue ha.
 

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I'm sick and tired of hearing beta this, alpha that, omega blah blah blah.

Truth is, if you're worried about trying to be alpha you're probably not fvcking alpha. If you were alpha, then you'd JUST be alpha, there is no thought about being alpha. It shows through your actions and mindset. I don't think an alpha person would be thinking about how to be alpha.

But then again, who fvcking cares about being alpha and beta? I really don't hold any regard for that sh1t. I just try to be the best version of ME that I can possibly be. I could give two fvcks about being alpha or beta to society. I'll live life according to my rules while y'all stay worried about whether or not people perceive you as alpha or beta.

what a joke


anyways, to OP's topic: i know some skinny bastards who pull girls like no tomorrow. muscles don't matter. as long as you're well groomed, well dressed and don't look like you're an anorexic mofo, then you good as long as you got the mindset and moves of seduction. its all about your own style and essence that you deliver to the world. (if you wonderin yes i work out)
 
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