If they aren't enthusiastic about giving their number, delete it

[spesmilitis]

When you get the number, and they aren't enthusiastic about giving it to you, deleate after she leaves, (or when she's still there if you wanna show some attitude). Usually, you can tell that she's not interested during the conversation, but sometimes you can't tell.

You worked to initiate contact, if she's not appreciative of it, she's not worth your time.

Did it today when a girl responded 'i guessss' when i asked her for her number.

 

[comic_relief]

I disagree with this post. I know quite a few girls that are aloof also and do not want to seem overly interested.

case study:
Girl that I know gave me her number slowly on a napkin. We went back to her place to swing dance and started to make out.

Does not matter if she gives it out lethargically or not. All about actually doing it, setting up the date, going to the date, and trying to close.

comic_relief

 

[MightyMate]

I thik You should always take the number, and if shes not interested then simply dont call her. Wait for second meeting domewhere by coincidence or so. Then she will see You aint lame and get interested.

 

[john_1234]

bad advice. you can never tell unless you go for it. i've hooked up w/ girls who seemed uninterested; i got flaked on by girls who came across as being totally into me

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Puzzy aint nothing but meat on a bone, you can suck it you can f**k it and you can leave it alone....

:rockon: YEAH BOYEEEEEEE!!!! :rockon:

 

[Panda 2000]

What I usually do is somewhere along the conversation instruct the girl to call me at some or other time. Either find something that you're both interested in doing or just nothing special at all, just tell tell her to call you. Regardless of whether they will actually call you, if you played your cards right, they remind you that they don't have your number which is where you give it to them and also take theirs. So then you can call them or wait for a call. I always think it's best to create as much initial attraction as possible so that the girls very willingly participate in the whole number exchange ritual.

 

[spesmilitis]

yes, there is always the chance that they would go for you even if they are not interested initially. But, I find is disrepectful that I had to make an effort to initiate contact, and she doesn't reciprocate the work I did.

But yourself in her shoes. If a girl you were interested in made an effort/risk to know you, wouldn't you make sure that she knows you appreciate it by showing good interest?

getting girls is way easier than having strong self respect, confindance, and happiness. You should give a priority to those three things, not girls.

 

[MightyMate]

So AFC its untrue...

Taking the number of someone who ISNT interested in YOU. Then waiting to see her again to PROVE to her that your a great guy? F**k that, move on and go find someone who is worth your time.

If You dont get my idea, it means You are a total AFC. Btw i spoke about meeting a variousgirl in club or on the street. Not in place where You see her often. You may see her even after 2 years next time. You are totally lame.
Btw until You take number You cant know if shes interested or not.
Regards

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

I called a girl and she was kind of a ***** on the phone, next time I saw her I took her phone and deleted my number and said "You're not gonna need it."

Super Suave!! :rockon:

I like that

 

[spesmilitis]

I take what I said back. I talk to a girl who said that alotta guys who get her number never call her back, so sometimes she isn't hoping for much if a rapport wasn't too deep.

This is feild tested. When I got the number, she wasn't enthusiatic, but she wasn't being negative either. Keeping what my friend said in mind, I thought I'd give it a shot. When I called her, she was working to make the conversation pleasent.