"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

If she's with her friends

Themanthatcan

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2006
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
Location
Florida
The girl I'm dating right now is great. When it's just us, we have alot of fun and click well and crap. Too bad everytime she's w/ her friends, they get really hyper and loud (not in a good way.really annoying), or they are completely boring and unwilling to do anything. No grey area in between. So I guess my question is, how do I entertain her friends and come out looking like a fun person? Or should I just try to make myself scarce when her friends are around?

Help appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Poll

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2007
Messages
121
Reaction score
0
You can hit on her friends, that would make things interesting right away.
 
Top