NewMan
Master Don Juan
Then it's your fault.
I've read a number of post's lately about women losing interest in the guy's they are dating. Whether it's been a few weeks or a few months - their IL has dropped off - and now the young DJ's are wondering what is going on.
Here is a reminder to everyone - and it can all be found in the good old DJ bible.
Well the bottom line is, it's your own fault. So what to do to prevent being hurt?
1) Make sure you are DJing multiple women. Seem's obvious right? but how many DJ's find a woman and then completely let off on their game? You should never let off your game. You should always have options - women at various stages that you are DJing.
2) Developing feelings to early on. Classic symptom. You've dated her for 2 months and already your head over heels for this woman. Bad idea - Bad sign. Every DJ needs to guard himself from becoming to attached. There's multiple ways to do this - all in the DJ bible - but to summarize - Once a week dating early on, don't be so available (keep calls brief and short), date multiple women, have other options, hobbies, hobbies, hobbies and have a life
3) The Pedestool thang. DJ's putting their women on pedestool's (to whatever extent). You've meet a hot, fun chick. And now our young DJ has placed this women far up on the pedestool. For what? that great a## she walks around with, or those big t1ties she has. Well I've got news for you - she eats, sweats and sh1t's just like you and I (ok myself, well I do not sweat I perspire). The point is, you've got to stop putting her up on a pedestool - she's not that special, there are other great women out there - you've just not meet them yet.
4) Opening up to early. This is a hard one - because you've meet a great chick - and your having these amazing convo's - so it's so easy to just unload everything about you. Some people may not agree, but I believe it's better to keep your mouth shut most of the time. Give enough to be interesting and to keep to convo going - but don't give her everything you've got. Of course, there a fine line between to much and not enough. Figure it out.
5) Being Ho hum. Yep - it's been a month and now your out of ideas on what to do. Your doing the same old thing - movie and dinner. Or drinks and back to your place. Whatever. point is your being ho hum. You've got to keep it fresh, change it up. There lot's of ideas on the website - and you should never let things get stale - or continue doing the same old date plans. Don't forget to change things up.
I've read a number of post's lately about women losing interest in the guy's they are dating. Whether it's been a few weeks or a few months - their IL has dropped off - and now the young DJ's are wondering what is going on.
Here is a reminder to everyone - and it can all be found in the good old DJ bible.
Well the bottom line is, it's your own fault. So what to do to prevent being hurt?
1) Make sure you are DJing multiple women. Seem's obvious right? but how many DJ's find a woman and then completely let off on their game? You should never let off your game. You should always have options - women at various stages that you are DJing.
2) Developing feelings to early on. Classic symptom. You've dated her for 2 months and already your head over heels for this woman. Bad idea - Bad sign. Every DJ needs to guard himself from becoming to attached. There's multiple ways to do this - all in the DJ bible - but to summarize - Once a week dating early on, don't be so available (keep calls brief and short), date multiple women, have other options, hobbies, hobbies, hobbies and have a life
3) The Pedestool thang. DJ's putting their women on pedestool's (to whatever extent). You've meet a hot, fun chick. And now our young DJ has placed this women far up on the pedestool. For what? that great a## she walks around with, or those big t1ties she has. Well I've got news for you - she eats, sweats and sh1t's just like you and I (ok myself, well I do not sweat I perspire). The point is, you've got to stop putting her up on a pedestool - she's not that special, there are other great women out there - you've just not meet them yet.
4) Opening up to early. This is a hard one - because you've meet a great chick - and your having these amazing convo's - so it's so easy to just unload everything about you. Some people may not agree, but I believe it's better to keep your mouth shut most of the time. Give enough to be interesting and to keep to convo going - but don't give her everything you've got. Of course, there a fine line between to much and not enough. Figure it out.
5) Being Ho hum. Yep - it's been a month and now your out of ideas on what to do. Your doing the same old thing - movie and dinner. Or drinks and back to your place. Whatever. point is your being ho hum. You've got to keep it fresh, change it up. There lot's of ideas on the website - and you should never let things get stale - or continue doing the same old date plans. Don't forget to change things up.
