if she wont take yoru call, is calling from a different number ever a good idea?

[pete101]

if you've messed up like i've had after a 2nd date, the worst thing u can do is keep contacting her calling her, she sees your number, ignores it and doesn't get back to you. by u constantly doing this you'll be annoying her more and more.

what if instead of making these calls initially, you call straight from a different number just to get her on the phone to talk her around?

obviously she may hang up on you, or tell u she's busy and has to go.. so you're almost telling her u only need 1 min to say what u need.

my friend has quite a few success stories by doing this, calling from a different number.. sweet talking her around, but he's very good on the phone so i dont know what he does exactly.. i think making them laugh is a good ploy to disarm their annoyance and anger at u if they've lost interest completely. although he has started with 'so why have u not been answering my calls?' which comes across quite aggressive even if it's said calmly..

 

[jdon23]

Pete, im sorry to say but this sounds like you have severe oneitis. Calling a girl from a DIFFERENT number because she WONT take your calls?? Come on man! That is creepy behavior! Let this one go!!

She had high interest, and then you did something and now its gone? Don't stress it bro! Don't chase em', replace em! Live and learn! Every budding DJ has done this before. Sometimes you just need to accept your failure, learn from it, and WALK away.

I went post stalking and noticed your last few topics..

I noticed that every few days you post a topic about WHAT you should do or HOW you should act? I know this is a forum for support.. but brother, you need to start thinking for yourself! Be a man, MAKE some good decisions!

Don't let OTHER people live YOUR life!!


Good luck

 

[pete101]

thanks, but what i meant was in future.. i.e. i call once, she doesn't call u back. then the last time u try a week later, u call from a different number just to get her on the phone. just cos she doesn't want to pick up your call at that moment in time and has lost interest.. does not mean u cant sweet talk her around like my friend has done on many occasions.. if she doesn't pick up your call then there's no way u can talk her around.. by using a different number it gives u 1 last shot at it.. if she hangs up or leaves abruptly then fine, but at least u know u did all u could to try to sort it out.

they always preach here call once, then if no response try once more the week after or few weeks after then next, all im saying is use a different number for the last ever call just to get her to pick up or potentially call u back so u can at least TRY to convince her otherwise. it's just better odds really. lots of people where im from have more than 1 number there's no reason why it should be creepy to call from it, maybe in the US it's not normal to have more than 1 number but here in europe it is..

 

[jdon23]

thanks, but what i meant was in future.. i.e. i call once, she doesn't call u back. then the last time u try a week later, u call from a different number just to get her on the phone. just cos she doesn't want to pick up your call at that moment in time and has lost interest.. does not mean u cant sweet talk her around like my friend has done on many occasions.. if she doesn't pick up your call then there's no way u can talk her around.. by using a different number it gives u 1 last shot at it.. if she hangs up or leaves abruptly then fine, but at least u know u did all u could to try to sort it out.

they always preach here call once, then if no response try once more the week after or few weeks after then next, all im saying is use a different number for the last ever call just to get her to pick up or potentially call u back so u can at least TRY to convince her otherwise. it's just better odds really. lots of people where im from have more than 1 number there's no reason why it should be creepy to call from it, maybe in the US it's not normal to have more than 1 number but here in europe it is..

Why are you TRYING to convince her to like you??? Are you listening to yourself?? Nothing that you say will just instantly get her attracted back to you!!! She has to see this for herself!! For your sanity, just let this one go!

Look I DON'T care if she gave the BEST head, you HAD incredible conversations, or she rode your member for HOURS and called you DADDY.. its a lost cause my friend.

You need to just completely remove the idea of ever, YES i mean EVER, seeing this girl again!! If she EVER comes back (which would be EXTREMELY unexpected), then its on YOUR terms!


And please don't just say "oh but jdon23, you don't know how special she is! You don't understand.."

YES I understand! I have had severe oneitis before too, and its extremely debilitating to your mind and your progress as your man. The worst symptom is that you won't take any advice from anyone because you want to "follow your heart", and no one "understands the situation"..

Look- I know its hard, but just try to wrap your brain around what I just said. Read it again, read it one more time.