If she won't kiss on date one..

[Comatozed]

Tinder sloot, we meet for drinks, after two I say lets get some wine and go to mine..she say's 'mine's nearer'... I'm thinking RESULT!

Get back to hers, thinking oh man this is too easy.. but then she wants to watch film in the living room rather than her bed...she's not drinking her wine...

I'm kino-ing/cuddling a bit, go for the kiss and she says nah... this is the first time this has happened to me... i didn't feel awkward or embarrassed but I didn't know how to play it..

I tried to play it off and said 'ok, lets just be friends', she said 'i just don't want to kiss you yet, is that a problem?'

What should I have said at this point? I think I suplicated by reassuring her it wasn't a problem, but i had no idea what to say??

We watched the rest of the film and I said I should go and left, didn't try kiss her again.

My instinct was to go all logic on her when she said 'is that a problem', but i know that doesn't work, so other than LJBF i didn't know how to proceed.

 

[Who Dares Win]

That "lets just be friends" sounds so wrong, not sure if its a counter rejection or some kind of passive aggressive retaliation anyway you should have avoided it.

Before going for the kiss you have to gauge her interest and readyness, thats why we use kino before the kiss...what you did was try to enter the shower then put your hand to check if it was cold.

My suggestion is not to bring up what happened again and try again following a better plan.

The simple fact that she wasnt drinking her own wine should have been an alarm to you that things we're not going too smooth.

If I were you I would have waited for the wine check, the kino check and then and only then going for the kiss, whats the success possibility of getting kisses in case she takes away her own hand for example.

 

[pyros]

the simple fact that she invited you over means she's a wh-ore but ok, you're looking for sluts so be it.

She did not want to kiss you? I see. You can ask her out again, go for a coffee and a walk etc, or whatever, but do not go to her place again neither yours. Have a normal date.
Then go for the kiss at the end. If she rejects it, send her to the curb and dont contact her ever again cause she's not into you.

The End.

 

[om1xr]

Humans are the weirdest muddafukkers in this planet earth and especially when it comes to relationships.

It's up to you but your game is weak because you think about the next step/move and that means you are basically focusing your attention on your hamster and not on the girl or the conversation/whatever.

next time try to be genuinely interested in the girl and just follow your instinct/gut/heart/whatever, just forget your internal dialogue or you may call it your male hamster. and you will see a big difference in your intimate and sexual experiences with women and actually learn from the experiences and situations you are experiencing instead of coming here asking some anonymous guys about some stupid situation/date between two weird strangers.