If she never texts you is she not interested?

[SamTheHobit]

Yeah this has been brought up a couple time's but any way..

My thoughts are, she is not interested at all.

If you are always initiating and she doesn't the balance of power is destroyed.

So this must mean you are a beta orbiter if you let this carry on.

I want to clear this up once and for all for myself..

so what are your thoughts??

 

[joker79]

NC until she reaches back, if she reaches back. If not, next, low interest

 

[Bingo-Player]

i agree but i think a timeframe needs to be added to that statement

for example if your texting her everyday morning noon and night igniting conversations and such then you basically aint even giving her the chance to contact you and eventually she will just expect it

i would say if she don't contact you first AT ALL not even a breadcrumb within 2 weeks then forget about it

 

[VikingKing]

Usually yes. But there could be a rare occasion where she is afraid to be over bearing and scaring you off, this is not very likely though.

 

[Formerlyrossitheking]

One of the best pieces of advice on here without a doubt is to only call or text a woman to set up dates.

It's the quickest, simplest, most effective way to see if she is really interested.

Text conversations are complete bvll**** in my opinion. Complete waste of time and effort.

Actions, not words......every. single. time.

 

[Mr Wright]

Like everything in game in reality there is no one size fits all policy to anything.

If she never initiates but sucks you off every week, you wouldn't give a crap who texts first. And sometimes the opposite happens, she'll text you first but not give it up. It's all relative.

The more experience you go out and get, the better you'll be at reading these situations, so whilst guys will say low interest, a lot of you will also be able to think of instances where you had to do a lot of leg work but you still got what you wanted in the end.

If you're still learning test it out. Text her first and try something new, it may work, then you can come back and share it with us. As long as your emotional investment is low but you're inquisitive you will only benefit from this. This is why it's good when a girl says "no" to you because then you can finally learn how to turn a "no" into a "yes" you will learn best through trial and error

 

[May_Day]

If you're always texting her and hear nothing from her, then yeah she wouldn't be. But if she is putting out and not texting you, then why would you care? Get what you can from them and dont sweat the small stuff.

 

[Uncharted]

Are you asking if she's not initiating is this a problem? Or does she not text you back? If she doesn't text you back and is not meeting up with you, she's not interested.

If she's not initiating texts, it doesn't mean she necessarily doesn't like you. A lot of girls I've met are shy at the beginning. Even though they were not initiating texts at first, they were willing to meet up and F.

I don't base their level of attraction on texts. Too much over analysis.

 

[mikey2012]

Who really has the power ? She doesn't text you and you are afraid of initiating for the fear of seeming to keen . But when she does text you, you reply. So you follow her lead, she has the power because you respond. I say if your confident enough about how she feels about you, you can initiate and when she responds she follows your lead so it's you have the power. If you text first and she takes long or doesn't respond her IL is low then just move on. A girl that likes you will want you to text her.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Ahh alright then, I'll ask her out this weekend and see what happens.

My hopes aern't very high though

 

[bigneil]

My thoughts are, she is not interested at all. If you are always initiating and she doesn't the balance of power is destroyed.

This is sad but true. However, you can never rule out their texting someday so be patient.

Case study: My New Year's Resolution 2014 was to stop texting all of my women. Sort of a fasting applied to my dating life. I figured whatever girls didn't track me down would simply be archived in 2013. Here were the results:

1) CA girl - I never heard from her again. I don't think she liked the colon cleansing kit I sent her for Christmas.
2) NY girl - She texted today. Still ready to get on a plane.
3) TX girl A - She texted on 1/18/14 "Are you seriously never going to text me again?"
4) TX girl B - She texted me a 100 part message 1/14/14 (must be the voice converter). Scared me off.
5) TX girl C - I just met her tonight and she already texted me. I didn't reply yet. It's becoming too cliché so watch out.

Bottom line: Women text for a living. If she isn't texting you she isn't interested.

 

[HedoRick]

I am dating/fvcking a girl that is very shy. She hardly initiates anything, and lets me take the lead almost all of the time. One of the shyest/most submissive chicks I've ever dated. But she's cute and takes good care of me. I honestly prefer this kind of setup- caveat is that although she never initiates, she responds right away when I send her a text. So generally speaking it's a bad sign when they don't initiate, but in very rare cases, with very shy chicks, they may want you to do all the pursuing.

 

[TheGambino]

I would say if you build enough rapport with her texted some time and she doesnt start at all and only answers without asking questions about you.

No interest

 

[GotED?]

Just my preference (doesn't mean it is the right way) - I don't date women who don't show interest in me at an equal level. This means if she doesn't initiate some of the text msg, NEXT.

I have learned to stop chasing women - it leads always to pedestaling or losing your frame to the woman.

Though I will SHOW INTEREST - there's a difference between that and chasing.

Be well.

Exodus

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Yeah this has been brought up a couple time's but any way..

My thoughts are, she is not interested at all.

If you are always initiating and she doesn't the balance of power is destroyed.

So this must mean you are a beta orbiter if you let this carry on.

I want to clear this up once and for all for myself..

so what are your thoughts??

not always the case according to Dan Bacon of the Modern Man

 

[VikingKing]

This is sad but true. However, you can never rule out their texting someday so be patient.

Case study: My New Year's Resolution 2014 was to stop texting all of my women. Sort of a fasting applied to my dating life. I figured whatever girls didn't track me down would simply be archived in 2013. Here were the results:

1) CA girl - I never heard from her again. I don't think she liked the colon cleansing kit I sent her for Christmas.
2) NY girl - She texted today. Still ready to get on a plane.
3) TX girl A - She texted on 1/18/14 "Are you seriously never going to text me again?"
4) TX girl B - She texted me a 100 part message 1/14/14 (must be the voice converter). Scared me off.
5) TX girl C - I just met her tonight and she already texted me. I didn't reply yet. It's becoming too cliché so watch out.

Bottom line: Women text for a living. If she isn't texting you she isn't interested.

You didn't really send her a colon cleansing kit, did you? That is hilarious.:crackup:

 

[PlayHer Man]

Yeah this has been brought up a couple time's but any way..

My thoughts are, she is not interested at all.

If you are always initiating and she doesn't the balance of power is destroyed.

So this must mean you are a beta orbiter if you let this carry on.

I want to clear this up once and for all for myself..

so what are your thoughts??

Are you talking about a woman you just met? If so.. then her interest is low. Non-responsive women either have low interest or are c*nts. Bad news either way.

If you're not f*cking her and you've known her for a long time (more than a month) then you are in (or quickly approaching) beta status.. because you either:

1. Haven't made a move yet (what are you afraid of?)

2. Got rejected, but you are still hanging around for some reason (desperate)

 

[skinnyguy]

I guess it depends on how many options you have.

Right now I have no plates, so I will follow up with any lead I can get.


If I had 6 plates I would next her in a heartbeat.

 

[VladPatton]

Case is confirmed: no texts = no interest. Would you ignore a hot chick that is into you and you wanna bang? Um no. You'd ignore the pork-soda-drinkin fatty that you don't wanna touch with a 10' pole.

A chick that's into you will most definitely contact you for fun. ANd if she likes you but is too shy, that's a Next as well. Those shy, mousey girls are nothing but an uphill battle.

 

[Mazer]

She could be interested or not interested. Who knows!

I currently have a fwb who NEVER reaches out to me, but every time I text her to come over, she says yes and we bang like rabbits. She went to a wedding last weekend and two days later, for the first time, she texted me asking her if I missed her, which I thought was weird because she never texts me. Of course, I told her that I miss that ass, bring it over on Friday night.

Her attending the wedding probably gave her all that I want a bf and get married feelings so she reached out to me, bishes crazy.