"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If She Likes me or Not ?

Harry89

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Hi there i am 24yr indian young man.

M falling for a chinese girl. But i am not sure if she likes me too or not.

So from Begining, I met her in a staffing company where they provide jobs and etc, i was looking for a job and then i found their company. She was there to assist me on phone. then i start texting her regarding jobs and the chat turned into jokes slowly :) i enjoyed it.
So after 3 days she called me she told me to come to their office coz they ve found a job for me. So when i reached there i saw her first time, she was cute :) intelligent girl. she was seemed to be interested in me. coz rather than any another she was showing interest in me. anyways, thats all.

after that day i keep chatting with her on phone. with small little things like what kinda food she like etc etc, i said her all truth about her that her smile is ery cute and all, she laughed at her :) and whenever she laughed it hits in my heart, i don't know why but ,y heart starts beating fast lolz :D

Then she told me she had a bf who is cooking food for her tonight. n i was like WTH :D

I asked her again about this if she is kidding or something, but she said its true. after that whenever i tried to chat with her she said she has office work to do even on weekends.
we only talk on phone when there is any job available for me.

But i want to know her more, i am so curious. But its not gonna be this way i guess. I am so confused n' Fused :(
she seems like a angel to me, and still she is, but i am not sure what to do know.
I think there could be one more reason she is avoiding me or probbably she is lieing that she has bf coz i am here in australia i have not much visa left to stay here. so i don't know what to do.
Please suggest me ! Thanks !
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thorninmyside

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She either told you she had a boyfriend because it's true and she's not interested, or she lied about having a boyfriend because she's not interested. I'd say either way, she dropped it in the conversation to keep things on a professional level. Some times the reasons really are that simple.
 

Harry89

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Thorninmyside said:
She either told you she had a boyfriend because it's true and she's not interested, or she lied about having a boyfriend because she's not interested. I'd say either way, she dropped it in the conversation to keep things on a professional level. Some times the reasons really are that simple.
Thanks for you reply, but its almost impossible for me to delete her from my mind. u know what i mean :( and why she seemed to be showing interest in me if she was not interested.
 

Mike32ct

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I agree with Thorn.

Staffing people are sales people in a sense. They have to convince the right applicant to fill a job opening for the right client. So they can be very friendly, outgoing, charming, etc.

She just wanted to keep things on a professional level so she mentioned a boyfriend.
 

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Mike32ct said:
I agree with Thorn.

Staffing people are sales people in a sense. They have to convince the right applicant to fill a job opening for the right client. So they can be very friendly, outgoing, charming, etc.

She just wanted to keep things on a professional level so she mentioned a boyfriend.
Thanks for your reply !
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sylvester the cat

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she ain't interested. end of. and seeing her as an angel is the devil's biggest trick. she ain't no angel. angel's don't **** and fart and take it up the a$$ and let their bfriends come in their mouth.

forget this chick before you fall down a very dark and slippery slope. it ain't impossible getting her out of your mind but it will take some work.
 

RagingBalls

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Moral Lesson: Don't put a girl unto an imaginary pedestal, like she's the perfect chick of your dreams. Doing imaginary things with her with all life's sweetness would do you no good. She's an angel to you but in reality, she's an angel on payroll giving jobs for people to work like hell in it.

Kill that imaginary angel image of her in your mind you created for her and shatter that pedestal.

Try borrowing money from her and you'll quickly see that an angel you think she is wasn't an angel at all. ;-)
 
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