"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If other people at school, dance lessons are calling me a player, what should I do?

Canadien

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I will admit that I wear stylish clothes, and try to talk about cool things that I do like taking 5 dance lessons, and doing other activities, and somehow everybody I meet seem to think I have girls all around me, and Ya its true to a degree that I am starting to attract more girls, however; should I try to explain or should I just agree with them?

10 months ago I got almost no complements, then six months ago I got a complemented by girls and everybody for having great taste in clothes, and today, they are envious and wanting to learn about how I do what I do, so should I explain or should I leave it to their imagination?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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xdreamz

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"you're a player"
"i'm a player?"
"yea you look like a playboy"
"playboys get many girls so they're men... a man is good."
"true"
"but a playboy is bad?"
"lol"
 
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