"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If other people at school, dance lessons are calling me a player, what should I do?

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I will admit that I wear stylish clothes, and try to talk about cool things that I do like taking 5 dance lessons, and doing other activities, and somehow everybody I meet seem to think I have girls all around me, and Ya its true to a degree that I am starting to attract more girls, however; should I try to explain or should I just agree with them?

10 months ago I got almost no complements, then six months ago I got a complemented by girls and everybody for having great taste in clothes, and today, they are envious and wanting to learn about how I do what I do, so should I explain or should I leave it to their imagination?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"you're a player"
"i'm a player?"
"yea you look like a playboy"
"playboys get many girls so they're men... a man is good."
"true"
"but a playboy is bad?"
"lol"
 
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