"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If only this guy had found SoSuave

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal_water

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Thanks that works now.

That was really something else, how the hell did he get her down the aisle in the first place?!?!?

ps: she is still a ***** regardless
 

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for those that espouse the argument that 'looks matter'...take a few seconds to think about it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ladyzman said:
Yea but she was ugly.
I wouldnt go that far, I bet she was wild in the sack though
 

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That was pathetic. He confronted on the show Cheaters what did he think? He gets all upset like a little girl when she tells him it's over? Obviously if she is cheating on him he doesn't have what it takes to satisfy her completely.
 

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these 3 look like part of the 99% idiots that sleep in parks and drink Starbucks all day while screaming "d@mn the man!!!". makes me proud to be a conservative instead of a liberal!!!:rockon:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This video is awesome for 2 things:
-The other guy's bandanna.
-"Please, dont call my mom!"
 

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
That was pathetic. He confronted on the show Cheaters what did he think? He gets all upset like a little girl when she tells him it's over? Obviously if she is cheating on him he doesn't have what it takes to satisfy her completely.
Sluts are sluts. They'll cheat regardless of how well you satisfy them.
 

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Love's Orphan said:
This video is awesome for 2 things:
-The other guy's bandanna.
-"Please, dont call my mom!"
I was thinking the other guys beard and the fact that he looks like he would blow up a subway, not ride one. Taliban looking mother f***er.haha
 

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The other guy looks ridiculous. Dreads, a pink bandana? A beard? A crappy shirt that he found in his dad's closet? And he sticks around for that drama?

And the "husband", literally acts like a child.

Wow. This was a great video.:cheer:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SharinganUser said:
Sluts are sluts. They'll cheat regardless of how well you satisfy them.
This is false. Saying once a woman cheats she is going to cheat on any and every man is an unjust statement to make on the woman's character. I'm guessing you've been cheated on?

I have never been cheated nor have I cheated on a woman. To say that a woman will always cheat if she's done it once is just stupid.

You're on a website forum looking for tips on how to be a "ladies' man" basically and part of that involves spinning plates or being with multiple women at the same time. Does this mean when/if you get married you are going to keep talking to multiple women at the same time to keep your options open? I'd hope not.

People make mistakes, granted there are some women who are just sluts and will sleep with any man regardless of what their boyfriend / husband does, but that's not true for most women. I like to see the glass half full.

Relationships can only last if both sides are happy, when one side isn't happy, they seek other outlets to provide that happiness. Although the method of going about it is morally wrong (cheating) it's usually a sign that something is wrong with relationship. Justifiably or not, she is not getting what she wants out of the relationship, so she seeks to fill those gaps with other men but does not feel comfortable enough dumping her current completely.

There's also the one night stand mistake that shouldn't have happened scenario. I don't excuse the behavior but we are all human, so we all make mistakes. If you're dating somebody for a very long time and they happen to cheat on you one night with one other guy, it doesn't mean they're happy about it or don't love you anymore. If the woman acknowledges it was a mistake and never should have happened / never will happen again, you can choose to absolve her for the one sin / mistake she made in all the years of the relationship, considering all the things she did right.

One mistake is not grounds to end a LTR in my book.
 
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SharinganUser said:
Sluts are sluts. They'll cheat regardless of how well you satisfy them.
But I bet she wouldn't be nearly as quick to cheat on the other guy as she was to cheat on the "husband", of course the other guy might not even give a shyt LOL. Hubby HAS to come from money, that's the only way I can imagine her marrying him in the first place. And "Please don't call my mom??" That and Baby Huey freaking out over meeting the host make me wonder if this is even real LOL
 

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
This is false. Saying once a woman cheats she is going to cheat on any and every man is an unjust statement to make on the woman's character. I'm guessing you've been cheated on?

I have never been cheated nor have I cheated on a woman. To say that a woman will always cheat if she's done it once is just stupid.

You're on a website forum looking for tips on how to be a "ladies' man" basically and part of that involves spinning plates or being with multiple women at the same time. Does this mean when/if you get married you are going to keep talking to multiple women at the same time to keep your options open? I'd hope not.

People make mistakes, granted there are some women who are just sluts and will sleep with any man regardless of what their boyfriend / husband does, but that's not true for most women. I like to see the glass half full.

Relationships can only last if both sides are happy, when one side isn't happy, they seek other outlets to provide that happiness. Although the method of going about it is morally wrong (cheating) it's usually a sign that something is wrong with relationship. Justifiably or not, she is not getting what she wants out of the relationship, so she seeks to fill those gaps with other men but does not feel comfortable enough dumping her current completely.

There's also the one night stand mistake that shouldn't have happened scenario. I don't excuse the behavior but we are all human, so we all make mistakes. If you're dating somebody for a very long time and they happen to cheat on you one night with one other guy, it doesn't mean they're happy about it or don't love you anymore. If the woman acknowledges it was a mistake and never should have happened / never will happen again, you can choose to absolve her for the one sin / mistake she made in all the years of the relationship, considering all the things she did right.

One mistake is not grounds to end a LTR in my book.
on the flip side, when a man "makes a mistake" he's considered the scum of the earth and it's ALL his fault. yet, when a woman cheats it's viewed as a "mistake" and should be overlooked and forgiven, right? that sounds like what you're saying. sounds like a double standard to me. how can someone TRULY "love" you that let's themselves even make such a mistake in the first place. does she love you sooooo much that she even puts herself in the position to cheat? why should she wait until AFTER shes cheated on you to feel bad about it? why shouldnt she feel bad when she finds herself attracted to someone else enough where shes considering even cheating on you with them? how many relationships have ended, men lost half of everything due to them cheating on their wives, yet you're saying when the woman cheats on the man the relationship should not end and all should be forgiven.lol sorry, but if you give the woman a free pass then the man should get the same treatment. if you want to throw the word character into the equation then I would view someone who allows themselves to cheat on someone they supposedly "love" to not have much, if any, character at all. character is making the right decision when its tough, not when its easy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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