If not for sosuave.net ....where would you be?

[SageOFAllenAge]

I seldom retrospect & wonder what I'd be like if not for sosuave.net, I know the answer & its a scary one.

A little more than a year back, I got turned down by my oneitis who liked a super nice RICH guy, & I couldnt comprehend the 'Why' factor because I consider myself to be smart & goodlooking.
So i kept analysing the situation over & over again and reached a conclusion that I wasnt 'nice' enough and decided to become even more wussy to get her back.

Fortunately a friend heard my sob story & gave me a link to this place, before I willingly made myself into the greatest wussy that ever lived.

Thank God for sosuave!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Unhappily married...

 

[AFK Protector]

double double post post

 

[AFK Protector]

I probably would still be a fat ugly oily kid who played video games and started doing worse and worse in school ultimately losing the respect of my friends, my parents and myself leading to a path of fatal depression ending with a horrible death on the sidewalk on the north side of the Sears Tower, which is now named something else but that is besides the point because this is about where I would be without sosuave, so thank you parents for getting me a computer and internet access; thank you sosuave and the members for providing such a gold mine of information and support; and last but not least, thank you my oneitis for giving me the motivation 2 years ago to pitifully search google night and day for sites such as this one.

Yes that was one sentence.

 

[eddiepie]

Well, I recently travelled to Australia to spend some time with family (fathers side). This didn't turn out too well (long story short, I treated like I could never live up to my Brother and going nowhere in life). I ended up talking to a friend on the internet after the family feud and he offered to fly me from Melb to Canberra (then home from Sydney to Auckland at a later date) to spend a few nights with him. This has nothing to do with sosuave, but surviving in Aussie without family (welcoming ones) and no open (affordable) flights back home (New Zealand) for 8 days.. this is where sosuave helped.

I was travelling around getting from place to place practically for free. I asked people everywhere for help, suggestions and directions as often as I needed them. Sometimes (when I had the time) I'd try hunt down a HB8+ and then ask them for some help! I didn't care about winning their hearts, I just wanted to get home but with a bit of eye candy on the side . I was housed by strangers and went out with people I've only talked to over the internet as friends! Having studied sosuave for a while before heading over, my confidence was at a massive high. I had no fear of rejection! If I was refused help, I'd smile and continue onward seeking someone elses opinion.

Before heading over to Aussie, I also finally found a girlfriend. My very first.. and seem to be holding it well. I still screw up now and again, but a quick search on sosuave sorts my problem out in a no time. Sosuave has helped me and my life like I could never have imagined.

I've gone from shy AFC (way too nice to girls and my diet consisted of friendship rings from cereal boxes). To now a more more confident self, with a strong ambition and sense of direction in life (oh and a girlfriend ).

I've shared advice from sosuave countless times to friends. I've then directed them recomending sosuave as nothing short of brilliant.

I too thank you sosuave <3.

 

[Vincent]

Whenever I think about who I would be had it not been for ss, I just look at my brother and just realize that I would probably be just like him.

 

[California Love]

Originally posted by Vincent
Whenever I think about who I would be had it not been for ss, I just look at my brother and just realize that I would probably be just like him.

How so Vincent?




Sosuave has given me some essential tools and a good amount of starting ground to improve on faults made in middle school. I realized that game, however, is largely intrinsic to confidence and experience. The mindset, however, can be spontaneously altered. I've learned that the way you view relationships and women is the single most important aspect in dating. The game comes second. Your own happiness comes not from the woman, but from personal satisfaction with the way things are going, and that is purely regulated by the mind. I'd contribute this realization to sosuave and my ever wiser parents.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by California Love
How so Vincent?

He's an afc.

 

[Miles Davis]

I'm glad I found this place. I think everyone gets the initial euphoria once they find it. After 4 years since I came here, I look around and know exactly what could have been. A desire to change is what has brought people here in the first place... if it wasn't this place, it was sure to be somewhere else anyway.

 

[Xandaman]

so-suave is a slow enlightment. I found it interesting how the first time I came across SS, I thought I had found the light... then I screwed up, found my way back to so-suave, over and over and over. I was dumped by my one-itis girlfriend, and found my way back to so suave. I may still make mistakes, but I am making fewer and fewer: my success with women grows, and how much I care about improving my own life grows. Ironically, as all this happens I place less admiration and intrigue on beautiful women. I ALSO look at my older brother when thinking about what I could have been. Although one of my best friends and one of the most caring and funny guys I know, he has a serious lack of motivation towards life. So-suave has not been everything but it is a huge stepping stone for me. One thing I found that I misunderstood at first is that you cannot read this site like a book and expect to understand it, there are some things like rules on how long you should wait before calling a girl and other fake resistance techniques that you cannot take too seriously as they cant apply to all situations. These guidelines should be applied in moderation to your situation, not followed strictly. Although dont get me wrong, the guidelines DO work. This has been tested and proven by many of us. I look forward to testing and learning even more.

 

[dearsappho]

Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
If not for sosuave.net ....where would you be?
Thank God for sosuave!

At the gates of Hell, my friend

 

[SamePendo]

Wow, I don't remember exactly when I found Sosuave. I did troll here for some time before posting. Not much time though.

It goes like this. I had tons of "friends". I've always had this way with people, but, I chose the wrong "friends" I hung out with drug dealers, robbers, and even killers. And many punks too. Well, this mega fight erupted. Two of my friends were organizing this mega fight. Each one brings as much people as they can, and, when the day comes, go to some big place, and start fighting. Turns out one of them didn't reunite as much people as the other one, so, chickened out, they blamed me, and told the other guy, that he didn't want to fight, it was me who made up all the fight thing. Of course, it was a lie. Well, then you have the whole criminal dudes of my city wanting a piece of me. I had to go to another city, and then, returned, but stayed in my house 24/7.

I spent something like 2 years without doing NOTHING, just being home, like a parasite. Not only was I bad with women, I was NOTHING with women, I didn't live in the real world.

Now, they see me, and turn their heads, as if they hadn't seen me. (I suppose part of it goes to my body language, and that I've put on 50lbs +.

But, where would I be? I suppose I would have developed some serious mental disorder, and start needing medication to keep my composure, and then, I would have tried to kill myself.

OR, I would have found Sosuave sooner or later, and still kicked ass.. you see.. I'm appointed by the gods to be your King.

 

[DeathDealer]

I would probably invest more time downloading more porn but probably less appealing to women and getting less dates.