If Men were just like Women there would be no Sosuave.

[rakishness]

Think about it..... if women and men were the same...people would never come to this site. If women and men wanted the same things...that would be GREAT. Coming to Sosuave would be a waste of time. Because I already know how my target thinks.

Even those dating "gurus" would be OUT OF BUSINESS. You know why? Because a Man would never have sex with a girl because she used ****y and funny or used the MYSTERY METHOD.

I know this sounds like common sense. But there are a few posters on this board that think this is the case. People who believe this are LAZY. Instead understanding and accepting the differences...they come on and spew their ridiculous rants(which are usually just ABSURD generalizations).

MEN ARE FROM MARS... WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS.

 

[Obsidian]

Well, that's one way to look at it. Another way is to say that men are currently TOO MUCH like women, hence their failures.

 

[bigjohnson]

MEN ARE FROM MARS... WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS.

I thought it was "I go to bars because women want my p3nis". So confusing.

 

[Roulette]

I disagree.

Yes, men and women are different. For attraction to last (long term) there needs to be a clear polarization of the two genders (male/female polarity). However, with that said, the seduction community in general is guilty of making women into some sort of alien being that needs to be decrypted.

In my experience this is FAR from the truth. The similarities are far greater than the differences. I had a guy ask me the other day what is going through a womens head when she says she wont date her friends ex boyfriend... I mean, c'mon.

A "guru" comes along with an eBook on how to decrypt women (step by step) and makes a fortune.

Becoming good with women has more to do with understanding yourself than it does understanding the differences between men and women.

Kudos,
Matt