"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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who dates and marries the ugly and average looking women?

You ever wonder that?

50% of women are cute/hot

50% of women are ugly/average


100% of men want cute/hot women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's why Zeus created alcohol and dark & noisy nightclubs.
 

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no, now a days it's more like 75% of women are hot.
25% of men are hot.
the 25% of men fvck the 75% of women.
and the 25% of the fat chicks get divided among the 75% of ugly/afc guys.
 
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no, now a days it's more like 75% of women are hot.
25% of men are hot.
the 25% of men fvck the 75% of women.
and the 25% of the fat chicks get divided among the 75% of ugly/afc guys.

You're joking, right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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devils3777 said:
who dates and marries the ugly and average looking women?

You ever wonder that?

50% of women are cute/hot

50% of women are ugly/average


100% of men want cute/hot women.
There aren't enough 'hot/cute' women for all the men. And what's hot or cute is also a bit subjective - one man's HB6 is another man's HB10. Unless she's really fat or has facial extremes, one man's going to find her at least an HB6, so it isn't as simple as how you've portrayed it.

However, there are also men who've accepted that they can't get a hot or cute woman, hence they become known as chubby chasers.
 

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Or... some men who know from experience that they can get "hot women", come to the realization that, for whatever reason, they prefer chubby women. And so they become this "chubby chaser" you speak of. (And this is not to imply they will chase anything chubby... there are attractive chubbies as well as unattractive ones).
 

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Or... some men who know from experience that they can get "hot women", come to the realization that, for whatever reason, they prefer chubby women. And so they become this "chubby chaser" you speak of. (And this is not to imply they will chase anything chubby... there are attractive chubbies as well as unattractive ones).
Um, why would a man prefer 'chubby' women?
 

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Crazy Asian said:
no, now a days it's more like 75% of women are hot.
25% of men are hot.
the 25% of men fvck the 75% of women.
and the 25% of the fat chicks get divided among the 75% of ugly/afc guys.

Actually for Women aged 21-34 it might look something like this.

3/8 are cute/attractive

2/8 are hot or very attractive

2/8 are average or neutral

1/8 are ugly


Women seriously take a nose dive in the looks department at about 35 and beyond. That is when competition really gets fierce.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Smack
Um, why would a man prefer 'chubby' women?
Short answer:
Because chubby women make the man's d*ck rise.

In some centuries and cultures past, chubby women were even considered the ideal, "hot women". Of course in our current century and culture this is not the case, society valuing the slenderer female form. But in either case nature trumps society, and I find that sex is most gratifying if you follow your nature rather than your culture.

It took me a while to admit it to myself, but my nature is such that I have a strong preference for chubby women. Sure, a "slender hot woman" can get me aroused, but this is nothing compared to the throbbing sexual desire a "chubby hot woman" can ignite in me.
 

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forward said:
Short answer:
Because chubby women make the man's d*ck rise.

In some centuries and cultures past, chubby women were even considered the ideal, "hot women". Of course in our current century and culture this is not the case, society valuing the slenderer female form. But in either case nature trumps society, and I find that sex is most gratifying if you follow your nature rather than your culture.

It took me a while to admit it to myself, but my nature is such that I have a strong preference for chubby women. Sure, a "slender hot woman" can get me aroused, but this is nothing compared to the throbbing sexual desire a "chubby hot woman" can ignite in me.
Hmm. Perhaps you should define 'chubby' because definitions can range from anything from a woman who isn't a skeleton to a woman whose bodyweight rivals a hippopotamus. Or, even better, post pictures?
 

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Hmm I dont know if it's like that well here are my figures.

70% of women are ugly/overweight

20% of women are skinny/decent

8% of women are skinny/ good looking

2% of women actually take care of their body and look good

I dont get where you have this 75% of women are hot thing but for me this is how it is for me....ohh you gotta throw in there that 1% of jailbait running around everywhere as well.
 

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forward said:
Short answer:
Because chubby women make the man's d*ck rise.

In some centuries and cultures past, chubby women were even considered the ideal, "hot women". Of course in our current century and culture this is not the case, society valuing the slenderer female form. But in either case nature trumps society, and I find that sex is most gratifying if you follow your nature rather than your culture.

It took me a while to admit it to myself, but my nature is such that I have a strong preference for chubby women. Sure, a "slender hot woman" can get me aroused, but this is nothing compared to the throbbing sexual desire a "chubby hot woman" can ignite in me.
"Chubby" women have hardly been the ideal for the majority of time throughout humanity. I'd love to see how you came to the conclusion that we're "naturally inclined" to prefer chubby women over fit women. If anything, we're naturally inclined to be most attracted to women with a body that reflect's good health. You're just a chubby chaser with a fat fetish. Sorry bro.
 

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forward said:
Short answer:
Because chubby women make the man's d*ck rise.

In some centuries and cultures past, chubby women were even considered the ideal, "hot women". Of course in our current century and culture this is not the case, society valuing the slenderer female form. But in either case nature trumps society, and I find that sex is most gratifying if you follow your nature rather than your culture.

It took me a while to admit it to myself, but my nature is such that I have a strong preference for chubby women. Sure, a "slender hot woman" can get me aroused, but this is nothing compared to the throbbing sexual desire a "chubby hot woman" can ignite in me.
I like thick girls, skinny girls, young girls, old ones, sluts and ect. If they got decent looks, personality and she is true to her nature I will date them. It's not all about looks to me.

But, I have been noticing more over weight women getting hit on and having boyfriends. I've even seen more guys buying fat girls drinks at the bar.

Why?? Men are starting to like more meat on women. Or they are desperate and know fat and ugly chicks are desperate too. My ex girlfriend was on the chubby side. But, her face looked good and had nice big t!ts and a$$. She got hit on all the time!! Who knows, society is way different than before...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IAFYB, it's because America is by far the fattest nation in the world, so American guys are getting too used to seeing fat chicks.
 

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IAFYB, it's because America is by far the fattest nation in the world, so American guys are getting too used to seeing fat chicks.
I was thinking about that too.
 

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Smack said:
Um, why would a man prefer 'chubby' women?
Even "chubby" is subjective. I lust after girls that are a little on the "thick" side because I find it soft and voluputuous. I'm not talking out of shape fat, I mean girls like Aria Giovanni: http://www.jiyh.com/photos/aria-giovanni-02.jpg

But to the guys that like tall, lean babie type, they'd probably consider her too meaty.
 

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Well I'd hardly call Aria Giovanni "chubby" - she's probably just a normal healthy shape. I mean, she isn't in porn because she's fat and men can't get erections over her. ;)
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I like thick girls, skinny girls, young girls, old ones, sluts and ect. If they got decent looks, personality and she is true to her nature I will date them. It's not all about looks to me.

But, I have been noticing more over weight women getting hit on and having boyfriends. I've even seen more guys buying fat girls drinks at the bar.

Why?? Men are starting to like more meat on women. Or they are desperate and know fat and ugly chicks are desperate too. My ex girlfriend was on the chubby side. But, her face looked good and had nice big t!ts and a$$. She got hit on all the time!! Who knows, society is way different than before...
Its just becoming more acceptable for men to **** ugly fat women. Oprah has convinced the world that BBW are actually normal. While ill agree that some men like the hippos, to me its no sign of a healthy lifestyle if she has a gut or an arse thats full of lumps.

This definition of "thick" women needs to seriously be dropped when talking about fat chicks. Thick women are maybe a little more muscular IE: MEAT. Not disgusting lard which comes from a diet of alcohol and fast food. Go overseas and see the way women are meant to look. You only need to go to Europe, Asia and South America to see that the American definition of "thick" is so far off the mark its not funny.

This is a thick woman



Maybe the fact that so many fat *****es are walking around these days is the reason its become normal. Its not normal. It will never be normal to eat 100o excess calories a day of chocolate and cake.

Boycott fat women. Dont ever do these *****es a favour and **** them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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